The first couple (childhood friends one) is insaneee bc I really like the bottom (xun?) and his constant insecurity. I think ppl get tired of his dramatics but it makes sense that he continues to dwell on every good experience/happiness coming to an end given his abandonment and abuse by his fam which caused him to grow a bit twisted (he himself is aware of his "addiction to heartache" which is his inability to be as comfortable w enjoying the present as others and I honestly get him). It's interesting that a lot of his insecurities are also him being childish like he's not as put together as he appears to other or would like to appear and it's cute lmaoo. anw I like that every time he goes back into his miseries and the top is more or less used to it and knows how to deal w him (▰˘◡˘▰)
Can someone recommend me a shoujo like furare girl??
Mizutama Honey Boy
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mizutama_honey_boy/
kinda similar in terms of having a mature FL x cute ML
Y'all acting like sohee is forcing him to do anything or harassing him, breaching boundaries is if she stalked and followed him home it's NOT a highschool girl being persistent and a bit annoying at worst when he didn't outright say he disliked her (they didn't eat lunch tgt, go home tgt, etc., after gyeol said no). Y'all lovee the male characters for their quirks but not the girls if she's a little bit different than the goody goody booo
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There's different kinds of boundaries for each person mæm, in this case, gyeol clearly set his own up, blatantly even.
U can argue that, but it can also be said then that not all boundary breaching is the same level of serious. Her bothering him a bit (after what she deems to be a not proper rejection) to hang out and then leaving after getting rejected again is annoying to gyeol at most. Yes a grown adult would be sensible enough to know they should take the L but they're literally kids here and the story is obv going the "yeah he rejected me but I was really rediculous and kept chasing and it worked out" route with this pairing (a common trope in romCOMS but even teenagers know not to do that).
I just can't stand that the readers keep going "leave my boy alone" as if his character isn't just going to be cardboard without this arc and even the over eager jumping to prove sohee is doing to him what Mr. Stalker did. All I'm saying is that readers have way too low of a tolerance for female characters and their quirks they can only accept a palatable one like jayu
Anw with the new chapter it's clear sohee bothering him wasn't causing him that big of a distress other than mild annoyence so clearly he himself isn't that strict Abt his own boundaries as y'all are. He's introverted and stays isolated doesn't mean other people making him open up is gonna give him PTSD
Yeah, it won't. There's many perspectives you can get in the chapter from both POVs — probably since we all have different experiences. However, there clearly were overstepped boundaries there. Though I can't say for sure abt what the intensity is on gyeol, I'd say there's no harm in acknowledging and respecting it. Esp if we were to relate this irl, not all people are built the same. Whether gyeol or sohee, being respectful and direct won't cost much. ( ̄へ ̄)