beta
I don't mind this. I don't prefer it but I don't mind it. Sure, Lyle is new to all this but if he truly hated any form of bdsm, hr would've told Ash. He was uncomfortable as any newbie would've been but he trusted Ash. It wasn't rape or anything like that. I think that people are just uncomfortable with the "experienced X newbie" dynamic which is understandable because oftentimes that lends itself to abuse and manipulation but this couple isn't like that.