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nice analogy! but i think sejin has all the rights to be just as toxic as ido in their first life, morally it’s wrong, yes. but from sejin’s word himself in chapter 92 “REGARDLESS OF WHATEVER HE REGRETTED AFTER MY DEATH... TREATING ME WELL NOW, ME WHO KNEW NOTHING... DOESN'T
MAKE THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER
GO AWAY.”

ido might have repented but him repenting does not undo his wrong doings. personally, sejin has my full support; wether he decides to kill ido or even reenact everything from their past life but with their roles reversed.

let’s not forget that ido’s wrongdoings costed sejin and their kid’s life, sejin had every right to feel vengeful after knowing the truth because what else is he suppose to respond from that? after finding out that your current husband was the cause of your death? was sejin supposed to thank ido for changing after going through all that?

morally and for their sanity, it is better to part ways but would that make sejin feel better? would that erase and undo all of the trauma he went through? no, right?

I do agree to some extent but sejin action in this chapter even if they mirror Ido’s in form, are not morally equivalent to whatever Ido did to him. His suicide attempt is off his own guilt toward what he did to Sejin but people are bashing Sejin over this chapter like sejin just told the dude to kill himself. Ido deliberately force himself onto sejin and in turn that made him kill himself. Sejin wanting to kill himself in the reaction in which he go after what was done to him while Ido is from his own guilt. So it not really fair to put the fault on Sejin.
But otherwise I really do like the story and I understand how people can come to like Ido but the truth of the matter is his actions towards Ido can't be erase and it's gonna stuck with the reader always and some reader who read it and equivalize it to just a bad as Ido's actions is not a fair comparison.

I understand and thanks for being respectful. I guess we all have different approaches in life. I understand what you're saying as well, but I don't think that putting Kwon Ido through all that would bring back his child. And just being stuck in a constant and unending loop of putting each other through the same thing doesn't really help. And I mentioned it in my comment, I don't support everything Kwon Ido did, nor do I say Sejin puts up with it, but this is just meaningless if they are going to get back together IF IT CONTINUES* I AM CAPITALISING IT BECAUSE THAT'S MY WHOLE POINT, IF IT DRAGS ON AND ON, THEY BETTER JUST END IT. It's bearable so far, but if it continues, man idk

Please read my comment again, I never said he already is. Secondly, I never said Sejin is wrong, not once

I won't write such a big comment if I simply wanted to bash Sejin. please understand the difference. I simply understand where the both of them come from, and can see how toxic all of this is IF IT REPEATS

Ah I think you're misunderstanding me. I'm not saying you say that but I'm just pointing out the fact that his actions that get hating for especially for this chapter is not a fair comparison because you mention "At this point of time, if they both really will get together, it only makes sense that none of them do repeat or imitate each other's horrible behaviour just for the sake of GET A TASTE OF YOUR OWN MEDICINE." Because sejin may imitate it but it's not morally the same and honestly speaking I think he has every right to do so. Not saying you said it but just pointed that out.

yeah i guess it is just a matter of perspective! i do agree with most of your statement except from the fact that i do want sejin to get his revenge and for ido to get a taste of his own medicine, but i wouldn’t really call it a cycle since so far in the manhwa, sejin is still not as near as ido’s wrongdoings from the past.

to just put it simply, i don’t think sejin would really go that far. knowing his character, at the moment he’d feel vengeful but once his mind clears, he won’t be as harsh as ido from their past life.

if they were to get back together it wouldn’t be fair for ido to just get sejin’s favor that easily, he needs to work hard for it enough ‘till sejin is satisfied, that’s the only way for them to get through this because genuinely speaking i don’t think ido’s actions are redeemable at all lol. if sejin is satisfied then i guess i’m satisfied too.

ur so right

I think you’re genuinely delusional. Even if Sejin killed Ido, I wouldn’t blame him, because what Ido did to him in his previous life is worse torture than just killing Sejin… and you’re talking about Sejin being mean and telling Ido to do a bj.

Literally. "each other horrible behavior." Ido deserve every bit of it. Doesn't matter if he genuinely repent. They don't want him to take revenge and expect him to be the bigger person while they feel bad for the dude who rape him.

And I think you have literally no respect to give. It was an opinion and I never came onto anyone personally, but for someone who's talking about Sejin's torture and its implications, you surely spout any labelling word out of your mouth without a care.

Even I agree with a lot of what you said. I won't lie, I somewhere believe and want to believe in the second paragraph you wrote here. Your perspective is understandable too.

Oh, I see. Sorry. Yes, I see to understand your reasoning. Anyways, thanks for making it clear

I agree with NO to Getting your own medicine, half of what Ido did to Sejin was his own self doing too, there are times Ido tried to gauge Sejins loyalty but he was so damn deep connected to his FU adopted Family. Those times I think do Ido want to try to make Sejin severe ties with his family in their first timeline. Oh Well author wants Sejin to be this fully weak character and let Ido the LI be the one and only villain. And I agree to the fact that no this is still not worthy of redemption arc they really need to separate like cut off to each others lives, hell I think much better Ido kills himself because 50% Sejin would really feel better about this and other half would make him fulfill his so called redepmtion arc for himself.

They have to figure out sihyeon's life problems first. This was literally about sihyeon in the first place. If it goes too fast, you guys will complain it was rushed. If this goes by a medium pace and gets finished early, people will want more. Slow-paced stories are better if you truly enjoy it at its best. BL's don't have to be all about the MC's love story.