nah. it all comes down to finding the ones that are just right for you, which takes a bit of experience and lots of patience. but i understand, it gets really, really frustrating. reply
my hunch: the groveling trope. someone who treats you badly regrets it and falls in love with you. they want you back after you move on. never again will they risk losing you, now that they've opened their eyes to how incredible you are.
satisfaction from a scenario that is unlikely to happen in real life. reply
