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Am I being demanding/clingy/needy if I want my boyfriend to update me about his day?
This is a prevailing concern of mine. I called him out twice for this. He could send a reply and message to group chats but not to me. I could literally read his chats in the GC's but waiting for his reply to my DM.
I talked to him and said that I am not asking him to message me all the time but a little update like "I am kinda busy, I might not message you later" would be nice or like "I will go to --- later" would reassure me.
But he never did. But I never talked about it anymore and just understand him that maybe that is just the way he is.
We were chatted yesterday morning for about 10 mins and then he went off for the whole day and just message me again around 9pm and off again, he did not even saw my reply to him.
I was mad? Sad? I don't know
Chats, replies, updates are bare minimum
So I am planning on breaking up with him
Am I overreacting?
rule no. 1 don't get an unsolicited advice from stranger but girl how about rather than pushing, try pulling out? Don't text him until he will. If he loves you he would miss you and contact you, if not, then something is wrong.
Yeah keep distance... And if he's busy and have a solid reason for not answering you it's fine but if it's not and it's a recent change you should talk it out... And don't worry.. Everything will be fine
i dunno but if u have to ask the mangago community advice for ur relationship... i think its pretty bad
If may I ask,
Is it wrong of me to get mad or out of mood if my boyfriend is used to not messaging me at all unless I say so?
Before we got together, we always message each other, like no days have passed that I did not get a message from him. Now that we are together, little by little he gets used to not messaging me. Like he could go on the whole day without messaging me even the tiniest update of where he is, or what he is doing.
Ps. I am not a nagging or paranoid GF. I just want him to spare like a minute or two to tell me what he is doing or where he is.
Ps. We talked about this and he said he will change. But no changes at all
What the heck was that?
A total watermelon girlie.
In MY opinion, I think he was just doing all those things in the past like texting you everyday, every minute or what because y'all aren't even together yet, having a thrill there is but now
that you guys are together, that thrill is slowly fading away.
Pretty much sure he did that to get you, girl. Because if that's his real self, he'd be doing those things until now!
And to the point that you guys have talked about it already and there's still no changes,girl yk it.
You don't wanna end up like those girls, in TikTok novels that doesn't have part two. Yea?
I said so many things but I didn't answer your question.
You have the rights to get mad at that kind of a situation, nobody can control YOUR emotion other than you yourself.
He might give you the assurance before you guys got together but what happened to that assurance after?
i think it’s perfectly normal for you to get mad if it’s smtg that you care about and that you asked for, but as someone who doesn’t like to text i also understand that it is sometimes hard to get used to texting someone so often.
well, i don’t have any advice bcuz they never changed when i asked either, just wanted you to know that it is normal and maybe talk to him more about it and explain why it’s important to you
hopefully it will get better soon
Love bombing bae
Lemme be straight with you, he was infatuated and is now getting tired of you (take this as a worst case scenario situation)
Speaking from experience, They never change. And he'll be taking you for granted more and more until he loses you.
Hun you have every right
Even as a female, that b*tch is disgusting.
I can smell tuna from my phone screen.