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Am I being demanding/clingy/needy if I want my boyfriend to update me about his day?
This is a prevailing concern of mine. I called him out twice for this. He could send a reply and message to group chats but not to me. I could literally read his chats in the GC's but waiting for his reply to my DM.
I talked to him and said that I am not asking him to message me all the time but a little update like "I am kinda busy, I might not message you later" would be nice or like "I will go to --- later" would reassure me.
But he never did. But I never talked about it anymore and just understand him that maybe that is just the way he is.
We were chatted yesterday morning for about 10 mins and then he went off for the whole day and just message me again around 9pm and off again, he did not even saw my reply to him.
I was mad? Sad? I don't know
Chats, replies, updates are bare minimum
So I am planning on breaking up with him
Am I overreacting?