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I just don't know how the fl is ok with cross dressing and how people in that "era" are ok with cross dressing, but the fl isn't ok with how people would think of her when the second prince broke off their engagement and she'd stay single????? She doesn't value other people's view or doesn't care about other people's opinion of her, cross dressing, so whyyyyyy is she so affected about how people would VIEW her when she is not of marriageable age after breaking the engagement with the second prince???? Like based on her character and personality I've seen so far, she looks like she wouldn't mind how people think of her. She doesn't care if people judge her. PLUSSS, she's not gonna die, and wouldn't her reputation be considered low if she were to go against the norm (cross dressing)? I just think it's kind of dumb if you think about it. Especially not showing the struggles and judgement people get from cross dressing. So my point here is it's kind of ironic. Cross dressing so that you don't have to be considered a woman who will be single forever and can't be wed?????