
(This may seem weird to some, so I'm sorry and I don't mean any harm) the sexual dynamic that i mostly (or i most often see) is a stone top and a pillow princess (i don't mean to offend anyone, i just don't know a better term to use). I know they exist and I acknowledge it, but it's just that it's the only dynamic I have ever read. So now, I just wanna ask if y'all have read GL manhwas that have diff dynamic (?), more like couples who does switch and such (and also, I don't understand why authors don't include scissoring despite it being hot).
i really liked these dynamics, but i’m pretty sure none of them scissor!
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/marie_and_alex/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sadistic_beauty_side_story/
As someone who's mostly into BL (which often also have some problems with this unilateral dynamic, but that's another story) and hasn't read many GLs with smut (most of those I read were shoujo ai) I also noticed that dynamic in basically all of them! I'm quite confused by the fact that often there is a 'top' that pleasures the 'bottom' of the relationship, but gets basically NOTHING in return, like, I even saw them not take their clothes off at all. All I can think of is, is that even fair?? It can't be like that in irl wlw relationships, come on.
I'd also like some recomendations about something with a more 'equal' dynamic, I'm still exploring the genre and I'm curious
I actually have the same thoughts as you when I first read a GL manhwa and saw the 'top' fully clothed throughout the bed scene, but I was told that stone tops do exist—they are someone who primarily takes the role of a top or initiator in sexual activity, but with strong boundaries around receiving or being touched. I understood and was thankful for being taught about things I still didn't know about. But as I explore the genre, i have only seen the same dynamic, and I feel like authors should like explore and see that there's a lot more to wlw relationship than what most gl manhwas portrays.
You're skipping a step here, bud. The first thing u should do is to apologize first, okay?