I use this website mostly for BL. (I read non-BL stuff as well, but not here.)
I enjoy all kinds of plots and characters, although I do prefer those that tend to be more mature and realistic, with both the good and the bad. I love messy and flawed characters, complicated feelings and tension, slow burn with or without smut later, I don't really care. I read BL mainly for romance.
I have a ton of hwa and hua on my "I want to read" list, but I will definitely not read all of them. I just like to have a wide range of interesting options at hand whenever I'm in the mood for reading longer stories.
I've heard people don't really use DMs around here, but if you feel like discussing some BL we've both read, feel free to send me one.