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i get the guilt he’s feeling. i have a similar situation. i lost my mom on january 5, 2025. she was sick and she got worse and she went in too late. doctors did everything they could but sadly it was too late she was in septic shock. i do feel responsible bc that thursday she wanted to go to the ER when we got home but me being a spoiled brat i wanted to go home bc i was restless and in the car all day. so we did and she kept putting it off and kept saying she would go on January 6 at her checkup with her provider. everyone tells me it’s not my fault but i can’t help but feel responsible. again my situation isn’t the same as his but i get how he feels. anyway