Need an aleksander's feed

Are we just gonna ignore that the ML is creepily stalking her in the middle of the night? Being deceitful (pretending to be a poor guy to get her sympathy) and tryna make the ppl she bumped into seem like villains or something when their reaction is perfectly normal? Like idk man I just can't get into him, he doesn't seem that different from the cheating bastard they're just bad in different ways but they're both dishonest and deceitful with her to get what they want.
She fr needs someone who is honest, generous, caring and communicative towards her (who also has a normal job cuz the ML seems to be involved in dangerous business) who is also around the same age as her instead of someone a decade younger or something.....
Like if we take off the pretty face, the ML is......very questionable