I don't know what's wrong with me rn, my ex boyfriend broke up with me last month, because of how I treated him. I kept avoiding him cuz I got turned off cuz he always smell bad, and I know I must just talk to him with it, but I don't wanna hurt his feelings (even tho I just f*ckingg DID). I kept on showing him hints that I'm distancing myself for him to be self conscious. And after days of avoiding him, he was done. He sent me a message he said He didn't know what was wrong w him/ w his actions that made me avoid him, and so, he was sooo done w me, and now I apologize and I still didn't tell him straight to the point why I keep on avoiding him, but he didn't reply, in short we didn't really got a proper breakup, but I understand. Not replying to me was already an answer.
Now everything felt so empty. But It's still so weird cuz I still keep on checking his account even tho I don't feel anything for him anymore, I STILL CHECK TF ON HIM.
damn i'm sorry i giggled a bit when I read the first part but yeah you should've just subtly or slowly told him about his smell. gen ques, Were you not aware that he smelled bad before you were even dating?
sorry op i found ts lowkey funny too so, telling him he smells bad and that he should fix his body odor will hurt his feelings? ... idek where to start man, you should've just told him. plain and simple but ig the smell was that bad cus you avoided him instead of communicating. idk
Just tell him?? Idk why you'd ghost your BF rather than ask him to shower.
fr, it's that simple idk why op made things complicated
I don't know why I'm like this. My standards have gone higher and I don't feel the love I've felt for him before. Maybe because we didn't get to see each other for a long time, but I also don't wanna see him too. Although, we've been talking online. I get to have this guilty feeling, because he has been good to me and so do I, but all of a sudden everything has disappeared.
I would give you just 1 advice, "be clear."
Don't lead him on, don't hope to regain your feelings, just move on or talk to him about it.
Y'all there is literally a problem with me..
Soo i do really LIKE straight romance like boy to girl? those kind of thing.. But since i discover YAOI... I don't know it's just like i lost interest of it like I don't like reading shojou anymore, it kinda disgust me...sorry it's just me soo yeah... I pushed my self to read shojou, but I can't take it...
I think it’s because plots in yaoi is a little more diverse? than shoujo plots? Idk it might just be me. Plus personally I feel more sparks in yaoi couples ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
I can totally relate to u literally same case has happen to me . Yaoi is really addicting but u there is nothing to be disgusting u know it is also love btw 2 person. Now I have accepted it as reality (〜￣△￣)〜
And don't let it bother u it is normal I think so everyone faces this type of problem(●￣(ｴ)￣●)
YOOO THIS IS DEAD ME! i feel so weird, because i intentionally look for yaoi and i dont even read if it goes for a straight couple, i feel bad （￣へ￣）
It happens to everyone so yeah..... Just enjoy reading whatever u want... No need to force yourselves...
yeee!!
OHOHOHO(〜￣△￣)〜
Yepp probably right..
Same here! I used to really love reading straight romance stories but since I stumbled across yaoi I've kind of lost interest lol. That's why I'm currently trying to get back into reading shoujo and be more diverse with my mangas
Me too but I didn't feel anything other than boredom. I especially love Shounen Ai I always feel butterflies in my stomach. Shoujo become a meh to me for a while now. But I know for myself that I didn't change preferences. I'm still straight, but yeah I always get bored with Shoujo after I discovered BL
Same happened to me,, when I discovered yaoi I can't read some straight ships or shojou. I think its based on what your preference is and it happens a lot,, let's jusf enjoy yaoi
I like this girl in our class, everyone liked her. I admire her and so does everyone. (Let's just call her zhi) This one time my friend told me that zhi told her that If she were a boy, she would date me. After hearing that I don't know what ro feel but like It feels like winning yknow, like everyone literally likes her. I don't know but a random feeling like high hopes, knowing I was never gay in the first place, and I know she's not too cuz shes dated are guys. This one time we were drunk and I was down that time cuz my ex broke up w me, she came up to me and asked "are you guys really over?" (Is she making sure we broke up?) I told her yes and she was like grinning, but that didn't bother me at all. The next day she then said to our class gc I WAS CUTE!?? (the time when we got drunk) I was like whatttt, thiis might be a joke right?
This one time as well I called her "love" as a joke and she called me love as well, I felt this tingly feeling like butterflies. On our summer trip one of zhi's friends asked me If I was bi or les but I told them I was straight. The next day she then put a notes on her IG "we could've been", WE COULD'VE BEEN WHATT!??? T-T I wish I was gay, yknow I do like her I DO, BUT I can't cause I'm not gay. I wish I was a guy. SHIBALL
How do you know you’re not gay? Maybe try something out and if it doesn’t work with her or someone else you’ll no you’re not but right now I’m not so sure you’re straight
you know you can give time to figure out your sexuality. You can try telling your friends that you're not sure about your feelings and need time to figure it out with her. But if you're like sure sure that you're straight then don't bother cause you'll just hurt her feelings
r u sure you're straight, ur whole paragraph kinda giving fruity
Gurl spaghetti is straight too before you heat it up
Go for it. I'm invested
I want an update WAAAAH
Girl this is more thrilling than half of the stories here
Pookie I don’t think you’re straight….
Girl you probably do like girls, but maybe in a more platonic way? (I mean, homoromantic instead of homosexual, even though you also like guys... you know what I mean ) It could be, just like there are asexual people (like myself) who might still develop romantic feelings.
From what you're saying it's quite obvious that you at least have a crush so the fact that your feelings aren't the sexual kind might be why you're confused.
(Still, I'm obviously not you so I could be wrong)