beta
Part of me thinks that the reason why they can't really solve this problem even if they already dated for 10 years is basically because during those years, nothing really happened in their relationship? In simpler terms, there were no (male) crushes involved in their 10 yr relationship pso they dint really know how to approach the situation. You can't really just know the other person's thinking just bc yall lived together for a decade or so, at the end of the day, a person's reasoning can be wrongly rationalized. But hey, I've yet to be in a relationship so idk