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Hey guys I’m away from home visiting my families house in a different state. My parents took the youngest with them on a trip. My younger sister who is 18 went to visit her boyfriend in another country. Anyway I’m in charge of taking care of and making sure my younger brother, sister, and family friend don’t get into trouble. The family friend has been listening but the other two have had a difficult time. My younger sister kept questioning me or just telling me she’ll do her daily chores later. (My parents told me that they don’t want me going to bed till the chores are all done. At 12:00 I asked my sister again after a lot of reminding to at least stack the dishes in the dishwasher (she also was told to at clean her room since around last Monday before my mom left. But I told her several times this morning to at least take the bottles and cups of left over fruit from last week away.) she questioned whined and said she’d do it later but then after looking up from her computer I think she felt sorry for me that I was just tired (on top of pms) and didn’t want to stay up any longer. My younger brother had a chore to water the front yard everynight but hasn’t done it despite knowing the fact that I will get in trouble for him not doing it. He has been supposed to be doing it since Wednesday and hasn’t. He said yesterday he did but he knows he’s supposed to have me time him for 45 min. I reminded him a ton though out the day and when it got to 11:30 he still didn’t do it so I told him to he needed to. While I was talking to my sister in another room he went downstairs to his room. I called him several times and then went down. I knocked and he didn’t answer. I called and asked my mom and she said to knock and then open if he didn’t respond. He was ignoring me while on a call with his girlfriend and quickly pretended to be asleep. (I got irritated because he did this the night before to and I let it go) I told him to go up and water the lawn. I went up and waited 8 minutes then went back down. Back in his bed I called him up again. After around 10 minutes he came up and got water. Then went right back down. I was about to get him 10 min later and then he came up. I did the timer and he went out. He came out immediately and said the grass was damp so he didn’t want to do it…… it wasn’t damp. 5 min later he came in and said he was done. I told him he only did 5 min out of 45 and he got frustrated with me. He went back out and I continued the timer. I had a bad feeling and went out and he wasn’t watering he just snagged my dad’s cigarette and was smoking. (My parents know and have tried grounding him and he just gets vapes and other stuff from friends.) I got frustrated and went inside to calm down then went out and told him to tell me when he starts again. The process of him coming in and me having to send him out again happened repeatedly after almost every 5 min (once it was 10) every time he would argue about how it was ridiculous. At about 10 minutes left I have enough and just wanted to go after he came in again. Anyway I tried my hardest to have patience. (It’s hard though in his case because I have a grudge against him for sexually assaulting me in my sleep a couple years ago so it’s harder for me to have patience with him). ANYWAY!!! All this to explain the magnitude of my frustration and that I’m desperate and need an amount of fluff and such to counteract this amount of anger and frustration.