see this is something I'd actually say is a valid reason to get mad or annoyed over, not the fact that he wanted to stay in the closet. this was genuinely a shitty move even if not on purpose. I'm gonna be honest for some people to truly get this story it'd have to be set a 100 years back in time
Or you can just have empathy and understand, it won't take a decade. Some people (uke included) have trauma responses that are so fucked up you just want to punch them. What we can do is understand them (not tolerate or criticize)
yk I've been defending him more than anyone but you can't not hold someone accountable when they've hurt someone. I don't think he's to blame but he needs to be counseled bc he's literally hurting his s/o
if u want proof here:
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/19833351/
what I'm essentially saying is that I recognize that he's a victim and that it's not totally his fault but the fact that he's hurting his lover doesn't change which it needs to
That's not what I was trying to say, lmao. I said what I said because you commented "I'm gonna be honest for some people to truly get this story it'd have to be set a 100 years back in time". I'm not defending uke, I'm defending the story.
I think u misunderstood that too. bc people usually don't really think coming out is a big deal anymore bc we have progressed a great deal but what I meant was that if this story's setting was 100 years back and the homophobia, anxiety of coming out and so on would become glaringly obvious, instead of being something you need to be in the situation to understand, then people would take the uke more serious and not hate on him that much. ifykim. I wasn't criticizing the story but the readers for being so narrow minded and not understand the points of the story :]
yall it's dub con for a reason, not non con and not fully consented. dubious consent, meaning no one fucking knows okay
first up I hate make up sex and second I cannot stand the thought of how much he must reek...
hey... it's a power move to let a bum at his lowliest point do everything he wants to you -except kissing!-
I fuckin love this story sm omg it hits every nail right in the head making it so much more realistic
this is why I really fkn hated when people began calling him annoying and overbearing bc 1) he's a popular athlete whose every move is being watched still in a homophobic country even and 2) now this past abuse too which okay fair enough was revealed pretty late but that's why I think some of yall needed to be a little patient or at least understanding like I'm sorry but again some of yall lack empathy fr maybe it's not that big of a deal but yall just try dealing with anxiety as a closeted homosexual
it was fully revealed kinda late but i do remember an earlier flashback scene where he got hit (don't ask for ch bc i have NO idea /lh)
They be just be thinking that coz that's such a "typical bl bottom troupe". Which is correct but Jiwon was written to actually have valid reasons why he turned out like that. Some pro atheles irl are literally like him to some extent with not being able to handle the spotlight. Also not really knowing how to handle real life situation coz the sport pretty took over his life like yalls not reading this story that well
It seems like flawed characters who show these type of vulnerability are just not allowed in BL. Yes it gets overused but that when proper writing and nuance comes in to play. And really Jiwon is written at the right place who just needs the story to develope him more as a character
yeah he's never gonna stop guilt tripping and manipulating him. someone add this to the bl garbage dump list
the first couple is by far my favorite but the second is nice too. I found seunghee quite hard to like towards the middle but it got better which I'm so happy about. wish he still kept his hobby tho I love cross dressers in every way shape and form
I get what yall mean now wtf the last 2 chapters were so unnecessary and the fact that not a single thing was bad like unnecessary bad before ch32...
in some panels yeseung is drawn so insanely good he looks real like he exists somewhere in the world