
Icl I feel the same as oppa because like - having opposite sex friendships has been so sussy and the worst experience for me. I dated a guy and his best friend was a girl and find out the girl was after him - it was really annoying and a big headache so I left him because he didn’t think it was a problem to still be friends with her. If I had a guy friend I would drop him but I have never even had any guy friends another guy I was dating later started talking with this one girl at work and they just had really flirty text messages and it wasn’t sitting right with me so I nipped it in the bud before I was gonna start hurting again. All in all if my lover has a girl best friend / a friend of the female gender 9/10 she is after him like bro hang out with the guys wth u doing with a group of girls (honestly it was my fault for ignoring the red flag )