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i don't get why the uke is getting hate for keeping the ring and not forgetting his first pair.. I mean isn't that common sense? Does anyone here never lost a loved one? Especially at his part its his FIRST PAIR, who knows how many years and memories they've shared together, once someone dies, you just learn to get over it, you know that they are gone but you can never forget the memories that you've shared together, and also that ring was his only "memoir" of them together, keeping it is no big deal, so I don't think it was selfish of him to disclose that to his partner (actually I was proud of him for telling that to his partner, and the top is really amazing, so much respect for him). It's not easy to lose someone especially if it's your partner, it's like half of you is also gone, so props to the top for understanding the uke, really...Also it does not mean that he love is current partner any less just because he's not forgetting his memories with his first partner. It really takes a lot of determination and TRUST to love someone who had already lost a partner.