I have a huge problem tonight I pranked my friend that I liked her she was quite confused cause I kinda over did it but when she knew that it was a prank she was mad for no reason she is asexual so I don't think she likes me but she said that she is a idiot and that I need to find someone else I'm soo confused why us she mad at me she kept asking if I was lesbian but I said no but she kept pushing me to answer her why tho why is she mad for no reason?!
you should talk it out. try not to sound too defensive but if you feel that you shouldn't have to apologise or if she is mad at you unfairly, then talking it out is the best way. also, try to find out the reason why she's mad before giving your opinion so that she feels heard enough and calms down
You said she's asexual right? Being asexual doesn't really mean they're also aromantic. Maybe just apologise properly since there are some people who actually think deeply of being told that they are liked/loved and only to be said that it's a prank, most would feel like they were being made a fool of.
btww as an asexual i can assure you that asexual people can have crushes and love others. we just dont feel sexually attracted to others, i mean there's a spectrum ofc.
You said she's asexual right? Being asexual doesn't really mean they're also aromantic. Maybe just apologise properly since there are some people who actually think deeply of being told that they are liked/love... Xrvulvi
But didn't have a problem with her being asexual tho
btww as an asexual i can assure you that asexual people can have crushes and love others. we just dont feel sexually attracted to others, i mean there's a spectrum ofc. rayha
wait nvm, i didn't read it properly lolyou should talk it out. try not to sound too defensive but if you feel that you shouldn't have to apologise or if she is mad at you unfairly, then talking it out is the be... YesButLikeNo
You said she's asexual right? Being asexual doesn't really mean they're also aromantic. Maybe just apologise properly since there are some people who actually think deeply of being told that they are liked/love... Xrvulvi
Idk but I guess playing with her feelings wasn't right
You might know this already but her being asexual doesn't mean she can't fall in love, unless she is aromantic. I think you should apologize darling. （￣へ￣）
You might know this already but her being asexual doesn't mean she can't fall in love, unless she is aromantic. I think you should apologize darling. （￣へ￣） Jegae
But didn't have a problem with her being asexual tho Dwiez
"she is asexual so I don't think she likes me" maybe you misstated something and meant to say "she is asexual and i dont think she likes me" but this is why we're telling you asexual people can like others-
"she is asexual so I don't think she likes me" maybe you misstated something and meant to say "she is asexual and i dont think she likes me" but this is why we're telling you asexual people can like others- rayha
Yes ur right even tho she us asexual she can still have feelings for others
also yeah i think she might've liked you a bit if she took if seriously since ive played pranks like that and have had friends play pranks like that on me but none of us took is seriously? like we instantly saw thru one another. or maybe she's conservative or sumn, idk her so i cant say. anyways, as others said sincerely apologize.. a small prank shouldnt get in-between your friendship
also yeah i think she might've liked you a bit if she took if seriously since ive played pranks like that and have had friends play pranks like that on me but none of us took is seriously? like we instantly saw... rayha
She is a understanding girl so she forgave me easily but I'll make sure to not make this mistake again
also yeah i think she might've liked you a bit if she took if seriously since ive played pranks like that and have had friends play pranks like that on me but none of us took is seriously? like we instantly saw... rayha
There is this new jubilee video on YouTube where they ask asexual people question and opinion on the subject. It's really interesting you should have a look. But all this to say that being asexual doesn't mean you can't or you don't want a relationship. It's the sexual aspect (kissing or sex) that they don't want to partake in. That's a really simple way that I have understood it. So i think that's why she said you should look for someone else. But for why she is mad, maybe maybe she has a little bit of feelings for you or felt offended. But either way you should definitely apologise and talk it out. She is the only one that can give you an answer. ( as if that wasn't obvious haha)
BTW this is my take on the situation and I'm not asexual so I might be completely wrong. And I don't want to offend you or any one else reading my comment. But if I did i'm sorryy
I have a huge problem tonight I pranked my friend that I liked her she was quite confused cause I kinda over did it but when she knew that it was a prank she was mad for no reason she is asexual so I don't think she likes me but she said that she is a idiot and that I need to find someone else I'm soo confused why us she mad at me she kept asking if I was lesbian but I said no but she kept pushing me to answer her why tho why is she mad for no reason?!
apologise maybe
I already did
She’s mad cuz u lied to her
wait nvm, i didn't read it properly lol
you should talk it out. try not to sound too defensive but if you feel that you shouldn't have to apologise or if she is mad at you unfairly, then talking it out is the best way. also, try to find out the reason why she's mad before giving your opinion so that she feels heard enough and calms down
You said she's asexual right? Being asexual doesn't really mean they're also aromantic. Maybe just apologise properly since there are some people who actually think deeply of being told that they are liked/loved and only to be said that it's a prank, most would feel like they were being made a fool of.
btww as an asexual i can assure you that asexual people can have crushes and love others. we just dont feel sexually attracted to others, i mean there's a spectrum ofc.
But didn't have a problem with her being asexual tho
Yes true
I do but she doesn't tell me she just confuses me
Idk but I guess playing with her feelings wasn't right
You might know this already but her being asexual doesn't mean she can't fall in love, unless she is aromantic.
I think you should apologize darling. （￣へ￣）
Ye
"she is asexual so I don't think she likes me" maybe you misstated something and meant to say "she is asexual and i dont think she likes me" but this is why we're telling you asexual people can like others-
Yes ur right even tho she us asexual she can still have feelings for others
also yeah i think she might've liked you a bit if she took if seriously since ive played pranks like that and have had friends play pranks like that on me but none of us took is seriously? like we instantly saw thru one another. or maybe she's conservative or sumn, idk her so i cant say. anyways, as others said sincerely apologize.. a small prank shouldnt get in-between your friendship
She is a understanding girl so she forgave me easily but I'll make sure to not make this mistake again
Thanks
Thanks for all the advice u guys saved me ┗( T﹏T )┛
There is this new jubilee video on YouTube where they ask asexual people question and opinion on the subject. It's really interesting you should have a look.
But all this to say that being asexual doesn't mean you can't or you don't want a relationship. It's the sexual aspect (kissing or sex) that they don't want to partake in.
That's a really simple way that I have understood it.
So i think that's why she said you should look for someone else.
But for why she is mad, maybe maybe she has a little bit of feelings for you or felt offended.
But either way you should definitely apologise and talk it out. She is the only one that can give you an answer. ( as if that wasn't obvious haha)
BTW this is my take on the situation and I'm not asexual so I might be completely wrong.
And I don't want to offend you or any one else reading my comment.
But if I did i'm sorryy
your fault, your prank is also very childish
you must be fun at parties
you're so ugh- chances are they are a child/teen. you must be fun at parties..
chances are they are a child/teen. why else do you think they'd have been so flustered over something so small?
omg yikes- my replies weren't showing and i was so confused lmaoo i wish i could delete them
asexual people can still fall in love, they aren't all aromantic, she may have liked you and you pranked her, so maybe apologize..
There's no way we does#－.－)