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I'm rereading this story for the second time, and I felt a bit uncomfortable the first time, however the second time around, the attitude of eve is glaring. Isn't she basically sexually harassing ansian at the beginning? I'm sure we all noticed that she was pan, so her actions couldn't be written off as being the close friendship that's found between 'girls'. If a man said the same thing, chances are we would all pounce on him, even if he said it in the same innocent context as her. She doesn't have much regard for boundaries, and I feel like the ml's lenient behavior towards it, is making the actions seem more acceptable than they really should be.