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I mean it's crazy how much lack of understanding for the bottom there is. Since the beginning the bottom always made it clear he was looking for pain, fuck the top literally tried DROWNING him when they first met. I'm pretty sure that set the standards for their relationship like??
He gets feelings and that's when he tones it down, and obviously the bottom is like hmm what's this dude doing. And when the bottom realizes he's unsatisfied he tries to break it off but obviously the top doesn't want to. So he sends him to the hospital lol he's such a nice dude.
If he's from the BDSM community then he knows the importance of compatibility. He knows if he thinks something isn't right then you communicate clearly and calmly, not cussing someone that they're not normal because they like pain to an extreme.
It's like everyone here hates the bottom just for the reason that he spiraled into his own rape. He wanted sex. He thought he was going to a consensual sex party. He didn't know about the drugs or the videos.
Yes he knew that bastard wasn't safe but that's the point, he wasn't looking for love or cuddles, he was chasing that feeling (which I'm pretty sure the drugs that he was secretly being fed fucked him over during this whole thing.)
He just needed therapy, not for the top to come with a holier than thou attitude blaming him for everything that happened.