beta
first off they’re equally wrong. if you’re in a relationship where you feel lonely and you simply aren’t getting the attention you need, it’s best to leave than to sit there and torture yourself on something you’re not going to get.
as of why min ju is probably denying her husbands affair while she had her own is probably her way of defense. to min ju, she’s done everything that a perfect wife would usually do like cook and clean etc, so she probably thought she was keeping her husband happy at home and that work was causing his sour attitude. but when she found it that it’s not the case and she was being cheated on, she went into denial because she felt as though it wasn’t fair and that she didn’t deserve any of it. i mean she’s right, cheating aside she was an excellent wife, but the moment she cheated, she ruined everything. she’s no longer innocent and she turned one victim into two. maybe more if we include the husbands wife and the female love interest.
min ju did not deserve the treatment that she got, but she didn’t make anything better by cheating. she deserved better but she chose the wrong course of action.
sorry for typing this whole ass paragraph i was just reading the comments and felt like i should express my opinion. i wish everyone who read this a good day/night!