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I read chapter 1-60 in one go so here is my female character view

Thalia - girl aren’t u supposed to be strong??
Eleanor - let that childhood memory go girl. He hate u from beginning
Princess - u are supposed to be one of the strong character but you seem like a meek princess
Echidna - annoying. Know your place woman

Seems like it missing some plot. Supposed he learn magic before enter the school?