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I think a lot of folks are being too harsh on Seonwoo. These kinds of behaviors can’t just be turned off, this is how he’s survived and even then he’s been living in a fight or flight mode his whole life. Even trying your best with the addition of a supportive partner can’t fix this. He needs professional mental health help in order to make sustainable transformative change
Expecting him to do that on his own given his history and lack of mental health tools and resources is not only ignorant, but downright cruel. Y’all need to understand that he grew up with NO ONE it’s literally always been him against the world and the people who he did let in betrayed him. That’s trauma you can’t just heal with willpower and a good social circle. He needs help. He deserves help. And I pray that Taesoo sees this and stays with him through all of this
For those of y’all hating on Seonwoo I urge you to reflect on this post and try to start showing compassion to Seonwoo, even if you don’t like him. EVERYONE deserves healing