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yeah man as long as you're an adult and have a healthy mindset about it then it really doesn't matter. anybody saying you're horrible or abnormal or need help is on tiktok too much and are not practiced psychologists. art and media is supposed to make you feel things--and especially in the case of more non-conventional or "obscene" content, allow y......
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i was worried for a long time that i was only trans because i suffered abuse, especially because that's what so much of the online TERF rhetoric preaches. there's so much focus on gender dysphoria and having that dysphoria be a requirement to be trans, but think about it this way: finding who you are is so much more about gender euphoria. don't try......
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Because we all love this trope 
(BL only) 

Each page has my top 10 recs for these categories:
Pg 1 ➼ lighthearted
Pg 2 ➼ dark/heavy
Pg 3 ➼ sexual tension
Pg 4 ➼ slow burn
Pg 5 and beyond ➼ mix of stories
(will periodically shuffle order as I add more ◈ last re-organized 10/07/2023)

**The more extreme/explosive relationships tagged hate to love**

02 04,2025
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it seems like the oldest a main character is in manga/hua is like... 32. give me some characters who are at least 40 or something, or visibly aged with eye bags and crow's feet :')

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unfortunately, child-on-child SA is more common than people realize. usually the kids who do the SA-ing have been SA'd themselves and are acting it out, though that doesn't excuse what happened. i'm sorry that happened to you.
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i feel like i'm going insane trying to remember it, i read it a long ass time ago.. MC goes to this sort of...military camp i think? it's an underground complex of sorts with different levels. love interest/seme is a crazy mad dog type with light hair, i think white or silver, and they meet via video call where LI's voice is distorted and only his hands are showing, and he and MC talk about rare books i think.