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I don't understand why call this grooming, when the guy is technically 20???? And the seme set boundaries when he was at that age, waited until he graduate, before actually doing 'something'. Grooming is when you establish an emotional connection with a CHILD, with an intent to MANIPULATE him, ABUSE him, or EXTORT him. Did they fit in any of that? Just bcs the age gap is big, doesn't mean it's wrong. If you hate big age gaps, such as this, then okay. That's your preference. But don't label anything as grooming just because someone is older than the other. Idk with you all.