might be alone in feeling this but I think Hyunsoo got away a little too easily with 1) forgetting their anniversary and 2) not rly planning/caring much for it even after being aware? Had he gone home that day and nothing was done, I bet he wouldn’t be the one to decorate the apartment, buy cake or flowers or anything at all. He said sorry but it’s still always Youngchan who ends up feeling like shit the most and then love on from it too quickly. Idk I feel like Hyunsoo should do something to make up for it and make Youngchan feel appreciated and cared for :/
Oh! Just let me clarify something! it wasn’t the night of their anniversary but the night before if I’m not mistaken. Youngchan wanted to kinda pre-celebrate a day before and obviously Hyungsoo couldn’t have imagined and he didn’t even tell him
Oh! Just let me clarify something! it wasn’t the night of their anniversary but the night before if I’m not mistaken. Youngchan wanted to kinda pre-celebrate a day before and obviously Hyungsoo couldn’t h... Aks
This is where I got confused as well... Because I thought the day of their anniversary is when they both still need to work so Youngchan prepared a surprise at the end of their work to at least celebrate something. The next day they both have day off I assume so they somewhat plan for that day to celebrate their anniversary, and this one Hyunsoo know about or don't, who know at this point ahahahaha
Either way it just poor timing is all, because Youngchan already feel uneasy from what he heard plus both of them didn't tell each other (about Youngchan worries about feeling falling out of love and Hyunsoo worries for his mother)
Totally agree with you. But as someone who's in a relationship currently i dont think it matters whether it's the night before or the night of the anniversary. Youngchan deserves better. He just wants to welcome the day of their anniversary with a sweet gesture, it's not his fault Youngchan forgot or he has something heavy on his mind going on and he's not opening up again. He's been with him for some time, he knows he's romantic. Youngchan knows he's not that's why he blames himself again.
I don't it's something to be really harsh on Hyunsoo about.. He is neither used to it nor does he think like Youngchan. He didn't even know Youngchan had prepared something. But Hyunsoo's worried over him and is considerate of his feelings. Yes, it's a basic thing but I think it's enough. They properly celebrated their anniversary so it's all good.
As someone in a relationship, I'd feel the same as Youngchan tbh. It might be the night before the anniversary, but there's still the desire to celebrate it as long as you can. Especially since it's their first anniversary. I know they're working adults, but it's their FIRST anniversary. Like, at least put some effort Hyunsoo, esp you know Youngchan is a romantic. But Youngchan is also at fault for not communicating this clearly with Hyunsoo, though I understand why he didn't want to cuz it was meant to be a surprise. Idk I'm with Youngchan here
I don't it's something to be really harsh on Hyunsoo about.. He is neither used to it nor does he think like Youngchan. He didn't even know Youngchan had prepared something. But Hyunsoo's worried over him and i... ZenRyu
If it's really "enough", Youngchan wouldn't feel hurt in the first place. I mean he knows he's not romantic but he's still expecting the least. I'm just saying sometimes "he's just like that" shouldn't be an excuse, there's always room for improvement
If it's really "enough", Youngchan wouldn't feel hurt in the first place. I mean he knows he's not romantic but he's still expecting the least. I'm just saying sometimes "he's just like that" shouldn't be an ex... Just some broke bitch
I meant all's well that ends well because you said Hyunsoo got away easily. I'm not really siding with anyone it's just understandable. They made up and that's what matters. Maybe in the future Hyunsoo would be more active in celebrating special days considering how hopelessly romantic Youngchan has proven to be.
Oh! Just let me clarify something! it wasn’t the night of their anniversary but the night before if I’m not mistaken. Youngchan wanted to kinda pre-celebrate a day before and obviously Hyungsoo couldn’t h... Aks
Yup! I understand it wasn’t the actual anniversary but Hyunsoo forgot the date of the anniversary itself. So the least he could do is what Youngchan did, maybe show effort before the anniversary. It’s their first and he knows his boyfriend is really excited about this. He knew this, which is why he said he would’ve attempted to go home earlier had he known. Which means he absolutely could’ve gone home earlier if he tried but he decided to prioritize work, again. And while worrying is a sign of care, it’s the bare minimum. A mom would also worry if her child left the whole night. Hyunsoo needs to step up his game in his own romance because romantically, Youngchan is doing 95% of the work right now. Obviously it all ended well but I still have a feeling that it’s alright because Youngchan is carrying most of it now.
Yup! I understand it wasn’t the actual anniversary but Hyunsoo forgot the date of the anniversary itself. So the least he could do is what Youngchan did, maybe show effort before the anniversary. It’s their... tokotoko
Agree with this tbh. Youngchan's still the one doing most of the work in the relationship, like how they were before. Which is kinda annoying haha. Personally, the thought of "I would have done x if only I knew y" is kinda annoying cause.. of course you would say that to make the other person feel better, but will you really do it? Who knows. It just feels like empty words more often than not.
I meant all's well that ends well because you said Hyunsoo got away easily. I'm not really siding with anyone it's just understandable. They made up and that's what matters. Maybe in the future Hyunsoo would be... ZenRyu
Nooo, i'm sorry i'm not trying to pick a fight with you, i just wanna clarify that the thinking of "all's well that ends well" is not really okay. It's okay only on the superficial but not in the long run :( maybe he'll get better, maybe not, but Gosh this is the side stories already hahaha
Anyway, this just shows we're not ready to let go of this story cause why are we even having long comments on side stories lol
To be fair tho, having a conflict in the side story is a choice..... Even if it's a small conflict, usually it just a cute little fluff moment..... Or seggs but yk
Nooo, i'm sorry i'm not trying to pick a fight with you, i just wanna clarify that the thinking of "all's well that ends well" is not really okay. It's okay only on the superficial but not in the long run :( ma... Just some broke bitch
Yeah, I can understand that you wanna watch Hyunsoo grow. To be fair, it's all new to him so I didn't have much expectation. I think Youngchan has said that he's a fast learner? He's also quick to apologize when he sees that he's the one in the wrong. So I expect they'll grow even more even after their story ends.
might be alone in feeling this but I think Hyunsoo got away a little too easily with 1) forgetting their anniversary and 2) not rly planning/caring much for it even after being aware? Had he gone home that day and nothing was done, I bet he wouldn’t be the one to decorate the apartment, buy cake or flowers or anything at all.
He said sorry but it’s still always Youngchan who ends up feeling like shit the most and then love on from it too quickly. Idk I feel like Hyunsoo should do something to make up for it and make Youngchan feel appreciated and cared for :/
Oh! Just let me clarify something! it wasn’t the night of their anniversary but the night before if I’m not mistaken. Youngchan wanted to kinda pre-celebrate a day before and obviously Hyungsoo couldn’t have imagined and he didn’t even tell him
This is where I got confused as well... Because I thought the day of their anniversary is when they both still need to work so Youngchan prepared a surprise at the end of their work to at least celebrate something. The next day they both have day off I assume so they somewhat plan for that day to celebrate their anniversary, and this one Hyunsoo know about or don't, who know at this point ahahahaha
Either way it just poor timing is all, because Youngchan already feel uneasy from what he heard plus both of them didn't tell each other (about Youngchan worries about feeling falling out of love and Hyunsoo worries for his mother)
Totally agree with you. But as someone who's in a relationship currently i dont think it matters whether it's the night before or the night of the anniversary. Youngchan deserves better. He just wants to welcome the day of their anniversary with a sweet gesture, it's not his fault Youngchan forgot or he has something heavy on his mind going on and he's not opening up again. He's been with him for some time, he knows he's romantic. Youngchan knows he's not that's why he blames himself again.
I don't it's something to be really harsh on Hyunsoo about.. He is neither used to it nor does he think like Youngchan. He didn't even know Youngchan had prepared something. But Hyunsoo's worried over him and is considerate of his feelings. Yes, it's a basic thing but I think it's enough. They properly celebrated their anniversary so it's all good.
As someone in a relationship, I'd feel the same as Youngchan tbh. It might be the night before the anniversary, but there's still the desire to celebrate it as long as you can. Especially since it's their first anniversary. I know they're working adults, but it's their FIRST anniversary. Like, at least put some effort Hyunsoo, esp you know Youngchan is a romantic. But Youngchan is also at fault for not communicating this clearly with Hyunsoo, though I understand why he didn't want to cuz it was meant to be a surprise. Idk I'm with Youngchan here
If it's really "enough", Youngchan wouldn't feel hurt in the first place. I mean he knows he's not romantic but he's still expecting the least. I'm just saying sometimes "he's just like that" shouldn't be an excuse, there's always room for improvement
I meant all's well that ends well because you said Hyunsoo got away easily. I'm not really siding with anyone it's just understandable. They made up and that's what matters. Maybe in the future Hyunsoo would be more active in celebrating special days considering how hopelessly romantic Youngchan has proven to be.
Yup! I understand it wasn’t the actual anniversary but Hyunsoo forgot the date of the anniversary itself. So the least he could do is what Youngchan did, maybe show effort before the anniversary. It’s their first and he knows his boyfriend is really excited about this. He knew this, which is why he said he would’ve attempted to go home earlier had he known. Which means he absolutely could’ve gone home earlier if he tried but he decided to prioritize work, again. And while worrying is a sign of care, it’s the bare minimum. A mom would also worry if her child left the whole night. Hyunsoo needs to step up his game in his own romance because romantically, Youngchan is doing 95% of the work right now.
Obviously it all ended well but I still have a feeling that it’s alright because Youngchan is carrying most of it now.
Agree with this tbh. Youngchan's still the one doing most of the work in the relationship, like how they were before. Which is kinda annoying haha. Personally, the thought of "I would have done x if only I knew y" is kinda annoying cause.. of course you would say that to make the other person feel better, but will you really do it? Who knows. It just feels like empty words more often than not.
Nooo, i'm sorry i'm not trying to pick a fight with you, i just wanna clarify that the thinking of "all's well that ends well" is not really okay. It's okay only on the superficial but not in the long run :( maybe he'll get better, maybe not, but Gosh this is the side stories already hahaha
Anyway, this just shows we're not ready to let go of this story cause why are we even having long comments on side stories lol
To be fair tho, having a conflict in the side story is a choice..... Even if it's a small conflict, usually it just a cute little fluff moment..... Or seggs but yk
Yeah, I can understand that you wanna watch Hyunsoo grow. To be fair, it's all new to him so I didn't have much expectation. I think Youngchan has said that he's a fast learner? He's also quick to apologize when he sees that he's the one in the wrong. So I expect they'll grow even more even after their story ends.