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I'm an older person, but when I was younger I didn't even know that not getting married or having kids was an option, it's just kind of what people do, so I went with the flow. I felt like in my relationships I didn't really feel what I was supposed to, but more like my satisfaction came from the validation of having someone think I was special and......

I'm pretty sure I'm somewhere in the ace spectrum, I just say I'm ace for brevity and because, like, it's not not true. I used to think I was pansexual since the definition of "not caring about someone's gender when it comes to attraction" really resonated with me. It was much much later that I realized I wasn't feeling any type of sexual attractio......