I see a lot of people saying “ I get that he has trauma but” I don’t think you guys really understand what happens when you experience something like this. The reason his personality and his actions are the way they are is because of his trauma. He wasn’t really like this before and has barely any experience with communication or friendship as he literally had no friends before. At this point if they can’t handle each other so dam needs to learn more about bdsm and min joon needs therapy. He doesn’t know how to interact with people properly and it didn’t look like he knew how to even before he got sexually abused. There was obviously some problems even before his experience with that shity blonde dude. You can see this when his sister made everything even worse. She even said she barely knows her brother. Yes, min joon kinda is making this all about himself ( as rape and abuse victims tend to do ) but that means he needs to know how to communicate he needs therapy. Hugs, bdsm and dating with do nothing but recall his trauma.