
Maybe it's just me, but how can you dare make that kind of decision for a child ? Deciding for yourself that the child you bear remains secret because you decide it's not important for your partner... ? I can't even fathom such a thing. Please don't go telling me something like "but he's making this decision for seme" I actually don't care, he have no right to, the only decisions he can make regarding the childs are for himself and for himself only, not the other parent, never. You always have to talk to your partner for your children. Because they're the responsibility of both but maybe it's just me. Otherwise, I think the angst is comming xD, oh dear I'm not ready.