
I sympathize with his past, but he’s self-sabotaging AND trampling all over the seme’s feelings. He gives the man 0 consideration and even knows the way he treats seme hurts him. This isn’t a lack of communication, this is actively ignoring any attempts to communicate and lashing out at the person who tries. This crossed the line from trauma response meant to protect, and into a petty pity-party. Would love for the seme to fully give up on uke. Maybe give him a piece of his mind and a wake up call… but that isn’t going to happen. This is going the: the seme is a doormat and keeps coming back to uke until the uke eventually gets over himself.