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Okay guys. One thing I’m seeing a lot of, that’s been pissin me off is people talkin bout how, “Oh you have a choice to be good or bad, no matter how sad the backstory.” I’ve just got a few things to say to those people. No tf you don’t. You don’t just go through years of trauma that shape your entire childhood and then wake up one day going, “Oh I’m gonna be a good person!” Like that doesn’t even make an inkling of sense. And to clarify, I’m not saying all of this in support of jakeyoung or whatever his name is. I’m saying this because that has to be one of the most ridiculous things I’ve heard in my life tbh, it’s just so ludicrous. I’ve seen a comment on here about a psych major talking about things called aces(not sure what those are exactly, but they provided a detailed explanation.) they went on to say that those are what alters a child’s brain chemistry. They said it could be as little as an argument or as big as abuse, but everyone is affected differently. Now I wanna pause here for a second and ask, at what point of you reading this explanation so far, are you thinking In your head that this is still a choice? Moving on, they go on to say everyone’s brain is different. And like they said it’s not an excuse but an explanation. They then continue and say that realization is the first step, and that if they realize what they’re doing and still decide to keep doing it then it would be considered a choice, only then would that be his choice. And also I feel like a lot of you are downplaying the ML’s trauma, cause if you were to be placed in that environment then you’d have a different opinion. And I hope no one has to go through that kind of childhood. Also a completely different topic that I’m sure someone else also already covered, but why are yall comparing the ML’s childhood to Kim Dan’s? It’s nothing alike at all. But seeing how long this comment is already, I won’t get into that. Btw the person I pulled my info from goes by the username @wontonssoup.(づ￣ ³￣)づ