does anyone know any shoujo ai/shounen ai where mc and love interest start off hang each other, but their relationship develops? (enemies to friends to lovers???) this is my favourite trope its so hard to find aaaaa ┗( T﹏T )┛
Its not hard to find, there's even a tag for it :) http://www.mangago.zone/tag/Enemies%20to%20lovers/ you can also try the "hate to love" tag

can anyone rec me some shoujo ai/shounen ai manga that focuses on the theme of heteronormativity and/or internalized homophobia? i rly need a character to relate to rn lol;
i can't find any and i'd really appreciate it! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
I think this one perfectly fits your description! http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/welcome_to_room_305/
I think Koimonogatari is good. It focuses on acceptance of sexuality and the troubles of homophobia. Idk if it's exactly what you're looking for, but it's helped me.
thank you!!
i actually started that series a year or two ago and forgot about it, i wasnt aware that it handled issues like that! thanks, ill pick it up again!