my ex boyfriend was like this everytime making me insecure of my features and ignoring me all the time only remembered me when he needed money we were in college and together for 4 years... i loved him because he was not like this in the start but after some time he started taking me forgranted ( he became addict) i was depressed anyways taking care of an addict and his trashy behaviour was too much for me.. leaving some one after 4 yrs is not easy we fought everytime but reconciled bcoz of our codependency.. but then i brokeup i couldn't take it anymore .. a boy liked me from my school time..even after 9 years i was overwhelmed with that affection i thought this would be same too .. i gave him a chance and he turned my world upside down .. treated me like a princess and loved me .. its been 3 years now i am happy i got a bf who can understand me.. i thank god i got out of that toxic relationship