True Blue

The reason why she isn't pursuing him is that she feels guilty and thinks that he doesn't want anything to do with her ,to her insisting on seeing him would be pushing his boundaries, that's why she's letting him go , also I'm not saying he's at fault but he came to his own conclusions,it's normal given the situation but he didn't try to listen to her ,which is understandable,the fl is in the wrong yes it's true ,but while she wanted to explain he ignored her ,anyone would think that he loathes her and wouldn't want to bother him anymore and for the thing about waiting days ,it's simply not the truth,he blocked her the day after then she sent a message and realized she was blocked it was later that he unblocked her ,secondly do you really think that he would directly believe what she says just after feeling betrayed? I think that excuses would've made him feel worse,also she didn't go silent first ,they both did

You are kinda making it sound like the ML is in the wrong. You said "he came to his own conclusions." His "conclusion" about her using him was completely correct. Him feeling like she never cared is understandable considering the fact that she played with his emotions. You mentioned that the ML came to his own conclusions, but didn't call out the MC for doing the same thing. You excused her because her feelings of guilt but didn't excuse the ML for his feelings of hurt. That is not fair. Trying something twice and giving up could hardly be called effort. She didn't care about boundaries when she wanted to use him, but now, she cares when it is time to explain. She could have said it in the letter.

Deciding whether or not to believe her is his choice to make just as chosing whether or not to explain is hers. Those are two separate matters. Even if he wouldn't have believed her, she still didn't explain. Thinking someone won't believe you doesn't relieve you from giving an explanation.

Yes, he hasn't make communication easy, but it is clear by his thoughts and actions that he is looking for some sign that she cared. One example being that he watched to see of she would turn around when he walked passed her to the elevator. He also doesn't have her on block all the time. The drawing showed him blocking and unblocking her several times in a day. If she tried to send another message later or after the incident, she probably could have gotten through to him.

I never excused her behavior,I'm talking about the fact that you said she didn't try ,while she did ,and even if the male lead did block and unblock her ,how could she know?You'd think that someone who blocked you and avoided you would not want anything to do with you.Also the thing about the boundaries,she thought about them later because she didn't know him at the beginning,about his thoughts and actions ,it's true we can tell he loves her but she can't,she cannot read his thoughts ,so no need to bring this up because this isn't her fault if she's not a mind reader and someone who can see what he's doing and thinking about anytime you're taking it from your point of view as a reader who knows everything,she decided not to explain by the letter because he first made it seem from her point of view that he didn't want anything to do with her anymore so why would she force it? Think of it a little bit , someone blocks you and ignores you , wouldn't anyone think that this person dislikes them ?Also about "coming to his conclusions" it seems you ignored what I said later "it's normal given the situation" but either way he didn't try to listen.
Then again I never said it was his fault but he didn't try to learn more.
The mc is still in the wrong but did try.

I also never said that she didn't try. I only implied that she didn't try hard enough. I didn't ignore what you said. I only emphasize the fact that you appeared to be finding more fault with the ML or trying to assign the same amount of blame. I think this all on the MC.


To be honest, we will probably have to agree to disagree. I seem to sympathize more with the ML, and you seem to sympathize more with the MC. That's OK.


Personally, I have never blocked or been blocked by someone. I have only seen those around me block and unblock people. They get mad, block someone, and unblock them less than 24 hours later. From my perspective, people only block people when they are mad or trying to make a point. I have luckily never seen it used in a permanent or serious way. That might be the disconnect. To me, only deleting someone's contact and/or unfollowing them is saying you don't want anythingto do with them.

He blocked and unblocked her. She unfriended him. That could also be why I think she didn't try hard enough.

It's not that I sympathize more with the fl ,I sympathize more with the ml actually (she had it coming ngl) but I was just trying to explain what might've have led to that,so in this situation,the thing about him chasing instead of her kinda makes sense but otherwise yeah you're right,I've seen too many with men always chasing after the girl even if she was wrong,I do remember one exactly like this that , pissed me off because the guy saved the girl but she treated him like trash and he still went after her , pretty trashy story anyways have a good night ヾ(☆▽☆)

Good night!