
I’m frustrated with Amber — not just because of how obsessed he is with his crush, but because he’s pushing too hard emotionally. In most casss It’s not real love; it’s more like emotional clinging, even love bombing. That kind of intensity can be dangerous. Sure, sometimes love can get mixed in with obsession, but its not true love in this case its a story and it love with these two will blossombut this feels more like a desperate need to be loved, to fill a void and anyone can fall in love if they get lovebome which is not necessarily a true desire to love the other person.
I’m not saying that’s entirely the case with Amber. Clearly, this is his story and he believes he’s in love. But I do think there’s an element of control and obsession here . a need so strong it can become harmful. It can hurt others under the guise of wanting love or something “more.