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I think some of yall need to reevaluate what "healthy" means because that comment irl would be instant divorce....istg bl authors think ppl (well more like ukes and omegas) aren't allowed to have any friends or speak to anyone apart from their partner, you know what that's called? Abuse....

Like even by this man's dumb omegaverse logic, the "threat" would be alphas yet he's always jealous over him having all omega and beta friends...

Like everything about this is is just awful....authors always wanna dump shit in for drama but these are not things you should come back from...these are break up get insane amounts of therapy fix yourself and then find a new partners shit not keep having kids so ppl ignore the red flags cuz chibi...

It's healthy to *talk* about difficult subjects and I agree these two haven't really delved into that, you know why? Cuz the author keeps making the dude pregnant (and we eat it up chibi are my weakness too I get it TT) but berating your partner everytime you feel slighted (because they dared to make eye contact with someone that wasn't you) and throwing their trauma in their face isn't healthy it's simply abusive....this isn't how you start a conversation this is how you end relationships tf....

It's also absolutely insane to me that some ppl are like "it's okay he's young he doesn't understand how to process his emotions yet" but he's old enough to raise three whole kids and run a company?? Like we can suspend logic enough to believe that but not that he can behave maturely?? and simply have a conversation with his partner without blaming, yelling and hurting them??? 23 is old enough to know not to throw your partners sexual assault in their face and use it to control their social circle the actual hell... "well Naoto should've been more clear" well Hazushitshow could've not been abusive too how about that...Just wild that people are eating this up and calling it "exciting drama" when it's the most clear cut form of abuse TT

Like I really need yall to contextualize what happened
~ Naoto spoke with a neighbor ~
Haruki yelled at him telling "you know i get jealous" "you listen to the worries of ppl you get close to" (?????? Like friends do????) "You're too trusting you're gonna get raped so you can't say you were "just giving advice" (the fucking logic???) "You need to grow up" (....just....eyeroll....) "your sense of danger is lacking" (the danger being...his neighbor...his child's school teacher....his child's friend's mother....aka anyone he ever speaks to....) all this is bad enough but saying all this to someone who actually was raped in the past....like yall are really crazy downplaying what he's done and been doing and just calling him "jealous" "possessive" and "healthy"????