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I understand both of their standpoints.
Especially because I grew up poor in an ethnic household. My dad is also sort of like Woo-wons. (Growing up he’d physically and verbally abuse me, and he doesn’t work. He leeches off of other people.)
Yes, Seo-An does have his own issues and has overstepped several times. But why won’t woowon just communicate about the issues he’s having with his father? Why not just ask for money? If you’re in a relationship where you love your partner, they love you, why overcomplicate things by hiding away your issues?
honestly, I never understand why people in manhwas never accept help from the rich boyfriend or rich friend. I get it, rich people won’t 100% understand the struggles we’ve had to go through. But god. You, person who’s reading this. If you grew up poor like me and struggle every single day with finances, would you realistically turn down any help a rich person is offering you? Because as someone that works a minimum wage job just like woowon? I sure as hell wouldn’t. I barely make enough money to live. Realistically, nobody would decline a rich persons help if they’re poor. I think people who write the “I’m not going to accept your help even if you’re rich!” Stuff have NEVER experienced what it feels like to not have any food to eat, or to wear the same clothes ever week. It’s a grueling feeling that not even the toughest people want to feel.