
Ml who has a crush on ml with trauma of women bc his mom was a prostitute

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/usagi_no_mori/
This one maybe

It had REALLY casual trans rep with one of the supporting characters in the bathtub telling the mc that if they didn't find the character being trans weird,why was he so against him being homosexual and the main character was like yeah you're right god damn

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/haru_ga_kita_kome_tasu/ this maybe? the only thing I remember about is the bathtub part lol

The only thing I remember is one of the main couples trying to ask a gay classmate for advice and that gay classmate thinking he was gonna blackmail him(they're not a couple just friends)

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/someone_else_s_bl_manhwa/
is this what you're looking for?

This one is omegaverse,alpha(black haired) once played with the omega (white haired???)as kids but then escaped from him because he found out he was an omega and his parents were against him interacting with omegas.
They meet later on but he realizes the omega has been raped as a child by the uncle and he saves the omega from the uncle despite him being already bitten I think it made me cry
I remember like 4-5 years ago I read this bl that was in a gorgeous painted style and I think they MIGHT have used 3d models as a base? It was SUPER detailed and I remember one of the scenes where they show the guys insides and the condom falls off, causing it to kind of get stuck but miraculously it comes out anyways??? As a kid I found that really funny but the art is just too good for me to forget. I found it on myreadingmanga, if that helps at all. I think it MIGHT be a one shot?
do u think it’s the broadcasting fuck room by club renew? it’s on mrm, bottom has a condom stuck in him, but it wasn’t a one-shot (it has two more stories).
I feel like im tweaking because I just read the sequence that you mentioned (with the condom getting stuck) and that's. Almost exactly how it played out but I remember it being a paint style for some reason. Alas it's been years so I'll take this as the answer!!!!!Thank you
hmm that’s weird it was released in 2021 so the timeline definitely matches along with your description. but i’ll see if i can find anything else!