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THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING

Well stated

I wouldn’t say FULLY consented because that was very obviously coercion due to Dan’s financial desperation (and fear of jaekyung if he said no during the first time). It would be more accurate to say Jaekyung took advantage of his circumstances

So if you are married your husband has the right to fuck you whenever and however he wants because yall are married? Dan agreed to having sex not to being mistreated and objectified like that, I blame dan too but that man was so cruel and harsh with no damn reason

So, in real life don’t date or marry someone like this.

Dan is a Sub he likes it, Joo is a Dom.

That’s not how bdsm works lmao you need to have informed consent beforehand as well as safe words. Doing whatever you want to your partner even when they tell you to stop and treating them like a sex toy when they didn’t ask you to, isn’t bdsm, thats called being an abusive pos lmfao

Fr like that argument was thr DUMBEST justification for coercion ive ever seen

Yeah that's why I don't think we should be saying its rape it was abuse. Like I stated before Jaekyung took advantage of the situation and that wasn't right. At the end of the day they are both stupid for having an idea like this at all though lol. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Sexual coercion is rape lmao, what are you talking about?

Girl stfu

You’re right, coercion is the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats. Dan made his choice without being coerced, so Joo didn’t rape Dan. Checkmate

Coercion is the use of force, threats, or pressure to make someone do something they don't want to do, while consent is the voluntary and informed agreement to participate in a specific activity. In the context of sexual activity, coercion negates consent, meaning that any sexual act obtained through coercion is non-consensual. Consent must be freely given, enthusiastic, and can be withdrawn at any time

Exactly than there was zero coercion, it’s was all consensual between two parties, Dan & Joo. Now Dan has discontinued the consensual agreement with Joo and left town. Checkmate. Eventually when Joo found Dan, Dan renegotiated the terms of the agreement. Double checkmate. Dan gave consent than withdraw it, than gave it… Joo play along because he likes crazy subs

You're giving off rapist energy with this way of thinking, are you okay? So when dan backed out in the 1st chapter in the shower, and told him he doesn't want to do it anymore, he pushed his head onto the bed and said no you will do it or else he will be violent with him like he did his ex that wasn't rape? so when he dragged dan to the shower in the 3rd chapter and dan literally said no, and hit him by accident in effort to get away, that's not rape right? When dan got the living shit beat out of him by loansharks and was completely battered, jk grabbed him by force and used verbal ultimatum and violent language to coerce him even when he was in shambles and made him pass out from exhaustion, used a sex toy without consent that was not rape? When he pushed him to the pool because he was trying to get away everytime, so that he would either drown or cling to him so that jk could have his way that wasn't rape? When he told him he wants to use sex toys with him again, dan asked if he can refuse because he literally didn't want to jk told him no you can't refuse, that's not rape?

I'm getting actually concerned here, some of these comments and their way of thinking genuinely starting to make me feel disturbed and uncomfortable. we're sharing this platform with way too many rapists in the making. I'm rebuking this

WOULD YOU SHUT UP WITH THAT CHECKMATE BULLSHIT!! bitch dan was drowned in debt what the fuck would you think he'd do? He agreed on that bullshit thinking it'll be sex not fucking rape bitch what would YOU do if you were treated like that? No that's not rape? What is it then cute fluffy little smut? go check on your self you're thinking sick and you should be concerned eww disgusting

there's no way you people are still arguing over this. It's a fictional piece of media as long as you guys aren't practicing this irl it isn't this serious. people interpret things differently and not everyone is gonna have the same opinions. should just leave it at that and move on ( please Im tired of the notifications) ╥﹏╥

Tbf he rejected sitting with the guy who says him to sit with the other guy who says him

I hate that you aren't wrong

Preach! Like Skylar had that hit coming... (๑•ㅂ•)و✧