Can't remember title
spirachuu November 25, 2018 1:08 am

I don't remember it too well, but I remember at some point the seme dies because of an accident or something so the uke goes back in time and saves him but the seme doesn't remember the uke but he falls in love with the uke again anyway?? and the uke was an author and the seme (before he died) travelled the world a lot?

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When were you able to be a fudanshi/fujoshi openly?
spirachuu October 29, 2018 4:33 am

I'm currently a closet fujoshi and want to see if there are any other people who enjoy reading BL in my friend group, who also like anime/manga, but I just can't bring it up. Only my brother knows I read yaoi and I'm still embarrassed when I read it in front of him, especially with the explicit scenes, so I try and hide the screen when I'm reading it. A couple of my friends, not in the friend group mentioned earlier, know I read BL and one of them is lesbian and she kind of has a resistance to BL since she thinks that it inaccurately depicts gay relationships (which is true for some in my opinion, but not all).
Because of these reasons, I just haven't been able to muster enough courage to bring up BL around anyone but my brother, to whom I tiptoe around the fact it commonly has sexual scenes when I talk to. For people who are a fujoshi/fudanshi openly with friends/family, how did you do it or how did it happen?

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    勝悦 October 29, 2018 6:49 am

    How about randomly asking "what do you think about bl?" Then you could give some sort of shonen ai example and explain why it is good, like the movie Dokyuusei , or the animes Yuri on Ice or Love stage (this one could work as "oh I thought this anime was a shoujo at first but turns out it was yaoi and I actually enjoyed it") or sth similar that has kind of a good plot or is moderately popular.

    I think if you start by exposing your likings for shonen ai it'd be accepted more easily, that way you can play safe and if someone happens to say they like it too then later you can ask them for something more uh hard ?

    As for me I don't really care about my friends opinion, they already know I read yaoi, I told them, and they don't care either so it's cool.

    My family doesn't know and I don't see the need to tell them for now.

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    lardylarr October 29, 2018 7:12 am

    If I'm reading yaoi and someone is near me, I let them know I'm reading yaoi so if they don't wanna see stuff, don't come too close lmao (if I don't know them, I just turn my phone brightness down to the lowest, because I be reading at work during lunch). I'm lucky my brother is actually a fudanshi. He just happened to read a shounen-ai on his own out of curiosity due to the fact that he has 4 crazy fujoshi sisters and it went on from there lol. When asked why I like BL/Yaoi, aside from the explicit scenes, the romance is so beautiful and it can be so funny and down to earth and extremely heartbreaking and it's honestly just as or even more relatable than some shoujo might be. I'm not fetishizing anything. Sex is hot, period. lol. But also, I have no shame lololol. I think it's okay to bring up the fact that you like reading BL, just so people know. Maybe they'll ask you more about it and maybe you could even be opening a new door for some. Sorry for blabbing so much. Good luck to you friend!

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Trying to find a manga
spirachuu August 5, 2018 5:06 am

I'm trying to find this BL manga and I can't remember the name of it! I remember is has "Do S" somewhere in the title because I read it as "dos" when I saw it from the corner of my eye

Also it's about this guy who's an office worker gets "haunted" by this ghost and ends up getting taken advantage of him a lot. It's later revealed that the ghost isn't actually a ghost but the guy turns into a spirit (or smthn??) when he falls asleep?? sorry for the vague description, I don't remember too much of it

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Recommendations?
spirachuu January 29, 2018 4:00 am

Any BL (don't care if it's yaoi or shounenai) that...
-Is consensual
-Doesn't end in tragedy
-No weird mind game stuff between the uke and seme
-No S&M
-Narrated by uke for the main plot
-Not by Natsume Isaku because I've already reread her manga a bunch

Honestly, as long as it's narrated by the uke I'm up for it

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Any real life BL stories?
spirachuu July 28, 2017 9:58 pm

As someone who doesn't go outside much and is on summer break, I became so jealous of people that happened upon BL material in their class or just with friends and such(so much that I almost wish school would start). So if anyone has any actual BL stories or stories of people you really ship, please share! (friends, classmates, or even strangers anything goes)

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    Kwysis July 28, 2017 10:32 pm

    Yes bish! So during summer school I saw these two cute guys link pinkies. And I was like in my mind, "OMG. Are they trying to hold hands but at the same time wanting to keep their relationship a secret."
    AND I know this guy who's friends with them and asked him if any of his friends were gay and he said, "Yes, there are two guys that are gay."
    AND BISH I EXPLODED!!! xD
    They might not be gay but let me keep my imagination to myself please ╥﹏╥

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    miusaski July 28, 2017 10:49 pm

    Once, i was walking down the street and saw these two guys eating a parfait together and being all lovey-dovey, saying stuff like ily and smiling at each other.
    My friend was like "wtf, get a room" but i, a fujoshi, wanted to scream (≧∀≦)/

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    MyHaremOfMangaHusbands July 28, 2017 11:36 pm

    (Long?)
    This happened not long ago. I was with my best friend, a friend and one of my brothers. My best friend is gay and so is the other friend but they don't know that about each other. So the friend was showing us something on his phone, my brother was laying next to him and was looking at the phone from the side while I was at the other side but I wasn't really interested in what they were looking at so I was on the side on the computer, my best friend was in front of the friend and he was looking at the phone from above(the friend and my brother were laying next to eachother leaned against the wall). So my brother and the friend were looking at the phone while my best friend got bored and sat next to the friends legs and remained silent while the other two were talking and laughing about what they were watching. So they continued doing that and after a few minutes by chance I glanced towards them and I saw my best friend staring at the friend's crotch(I was like whut, why are u doing that u lil nasty (o...o) ) . My best friend didn't notice I was glancing towards them and he started moving his hands onto my friends legs (my fujoshi senses were tingling), I just kept quiet and continued watching how my best friends hand slowly moved upwards and how the friend started getting more and more silent until he placed his hand on the friends crotch and squeezed it lightly. At that moment the friend suddenly got up and said he was going to the bathroom and I KID YOU NOT, HE HAD A RAGING BONER................he came back after like less than 10 minutes (meanwhile my yaoi toughts were going craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazy....)and he was sitting next to me not going back to the bed,( I was there shook like (o...o) ) they stayed at my house for the next 4 hours and it was pretty fun.(besides the fact of what I just witnessed with my own fujoshi eyes gave me a whooole different view of the situation I was in..). When it was time for them to go home I wanted to walk a part of the way back with them so the friend and the best friend were waiting outside (SITTING NEXT TO EACH OTHER) while I changed into something. Now when I was gonna go outside iin front of the door there is a curtain from which it's semi see trough from one side and not see trough from the otherand as I was looking for my shoes I looked outside and saw the the friend and best friend. But the thing was that the friend had a raging boner and he wasn't trying to hide it, it was more like he was trying to SHOW it to the best friend and the best friend was staring at it silently(meanwhile I was so distracted by looking at them put on the wrong shoe). And now the stuff gets weird. The best friend asked the friend I kid you not " what's that small thing" and the friend was like "oh you wanna see what's "small" " and my best friend was like "I'm not gay like yourself" and the friend brushed it off as a joke"(and there I was BURNING in the hallway trying to process why he said he isn't gay to him when he is and he even did those things to him (O.......O) ). And ten they went home. The next day I asked my friend about it and he said he actually likes the friend but is too shy to confess and there was me like (⊙…⊙ )

    Fin.

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