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Huh? Everybody in this are emotionally immature ffs. And that pretty faced friend irked me to no end, really? You getting mad over your friend's break up because you can't see your crush and have no sympathy or even try to speak gentler to your brokenhearted friend? Talk about self-centered. While some of what he said made sense, people's feelings are valid, if they're anxious or hurt then they need to address it, not JUDGE them for having those feelings. I feel bad for the funny looking friend.

As for the uke, it is frustrating, he's so sensitive and anxious about little things BUT he keeps mum about it rather than communicate it. And when he did, he didn't PRESS it on the seme's lukewarm and roundabout answers. If I were him, I'll say all what I'm feeling into details while jotting down on where the seme keep feeding those anxiety and fear, and if the answer still lukewarm, say goodbye and never look back.

For the seme, so much is to say about him, but I'll refrain (I'll keep it shorter) because he's the type of guy who would frustrate me to no end until i pop a blood vessel. Emotionally abusive (his lack of 'attention' can count as manipulative, while his indifferent stance as gaslighting), lack of self introspection, LACK OF EFFORT. When your significant other communicate their anxiety and fear, you're supposed to try to understand where those coming from, was it something we said or not say? Something we did or not do? Or was it because other external factors? And what could ease those anxiety, if they're too different in principles or ideals, then discuss to try to compromise each other or bridge that difference, NOT WALKING AWAY WITH NO FOLLOW UP. He's making the uke do all the head work?? Giving that "oh but it's you who got issues, not me so I'm just waiting for you to be ready to talk" vibe. NO YOU BOTH GOT ISSUES SO COME DOWN AND T A L K. That is, if he really want the relationship to work, irl this kind of guy would be left and ghosted, and suddenly hear rumors about the other person's marriage/dating, seriously. Unless, well, the other party is as emotionally constipated.

All in all, all parties made their mistakes, nobody is free of guilt here. I really wanna smack some sense in them seriously. Do college students nowadays this stupid in relationship? I surely hope not, that's just sad.

I bet there are some who would say, oh but they don't have the experience yet. Sure yeah, for the uke case, that's why I'm not beating him too harshly. And that seme IS emotionally constipated since he always got what he wants without much effort and it all got boring for him, and that's the whole point this one gonna frustrate him (and me to brain hemorrhage) so much that he'll gradually realize his edgelord no effort coolness will not work, and he'll start learning. If this is what it is, my poor tiny skull about to burst.