I don’t know where everyone got the “grown ass man” part from, but at the beginning of his introduction we’ve seen that all he is a lowlife dropout, who is now living life vulgarly. Gilhan & Suhan’s relationship is a form of trauma bonding—Gilhan was isolated and found his loneliness to be consumed by the presence of Suhan & Suhan who was alienated by family started hanging around the wrong crowd and found solace with Gilhan. I WANT TO MAKE THIS VERY CLEAR!!! You can still be groomed by someone who’s the same age or close to the same age AS YOU. TW: There are children who can sexually abuse other children too… js like teens can do the same to other teens.. and adults can do it to other adults. We’re slowly creeping on territory where we see how Suhan has been easily manipulated by people in his life.