
I like the seme since he’s not a fuckboy leading everyone on. He’s kinda loose but honestly as long as you don’t cheat or lie. And as far as I understood it correctly they even broke up before the mixer, so I personally don’t think that there’s a problem. Fuckboys/girls for me are ppl that sleep around AND are unclear about their intentions, or lie and cheat. But he’s not like that. As for the: if he likes the uke why did he date other girls? - ppl: he didn’t even know that the uke likes him back, why would he risk the friendship then? For us it’s obvious that the uke liked him bc we saw it in his POV but for the seme it probably looked more like his Kouhai that has very big admiration for him and why would the seme confess then, if he thinks that the uke could be shocked cause he just admired and didn’t actually like him that way. And if all this considered how many ppl do this ? So why shouldn’t he be allowed to date other ppl? Don’t get me wrong i would have also preferred for them to talk about everything cause communication is key and yes I’d also be uncomfortable if a guy dated around a lot but that’s me and not everyone thinks like that + like I said the intentions are important. And he in my opinion wasn’t an asshole fuckboy just a person that slept around and he has the right to do that. So calm down everybody and don’t act as if this doesn’t happen in real life. And as if he has to avoid every relationship and has to stay celibate.
That being said I really liked how they did the sex scene and how it was worded. Things like that make a major difference and I have the feeling bc of language barrier etc., the as consentful meant & intended sex scenes aren’t always portrayed perfectly or well in a lot of manga.And if I think here it was done very well.