bye i was dreading every worst possible way to end a season and not once did kidnapping cross my mind.. smh
please i’ve not even caught up to speed with the chaps and i can’t get enough like ugh please don’t stop
I finally found some scientific evidence that ABUSE IS LEARNED and it is hard to UNLEARN IT unless through THERAPY and RECOVERY.
Early Physical Abuse and Adult Outcomes - PMC https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7780955/
Understanding the Impact of Trauma
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK207191/
He DOES have an excuse (BUT IT DOES NOT ABSOLVE HIS CONSEQUENCES) for his manners—he was abused and taught violent yields reward through boxing.
His responses are JUSTIFIED (do NOT conflate with "good" or "right") because it is REASONABLE why he does these terrible things—because his family TAUGHT him to hurt others and degrade others.
He did NOT learn how to love or be kind because he had no mother (one that abandoned him and never came back) nor a father that support him. He LEARNED ATO BE KIND to OLDER FOLKS because they showed him generosity, so he does the same. But the kids who bullied himself straight away when he joined the boxing club? The way the manager treated him when he was starving and stealing? GET REAL. Who would expect JJK to have the temperament of Kim Dan when all his entire childhood up to teen years was abuse, bullying, neglect, and death?
Sure, he COULD have chosen to become a different person who was kind. But in his backstory, can you point to someone who was his age who WAS kind and friendly to him? If not, then you must see my point: he didn't KNOW he had the option to get out of the Abuse cycle. It's called a cycle for a reason, and unless an outside force acts (like Kim Dan), then you cannot get out of it.
Without a PAST, what would you be? You guys are acting like, "ohh just because you had a hard life doesn't mean you can't get out of it" Okay, American. Not everyone has the same opportunities or mindset as you. This is like saying "Okay, poor person. All you need to do is get rich, despite all the taxes and networking and cheaters in the job industry. [Okay, abused person. All you need to do is learn how to be nice when the world is proving to you that it won't be nice to you.]"
Also, I hate JJK as much as another. But I understand he had a rough past and now he is in his redemption arc. He needs help, and the fact you people love slapping his hand away, telling him "you need to be better" just shows you're no better than those who abused him. Abuse needs to be unlearned and JJK needs therapy. You can forgive and not forget what he's done, it's called having consequences. He will have HEAVY consequences for his terrible actions. But they came from his past and that makes his actions WITH A REASON.
Say a person from a rich, well off family goes and kills another. They had everything yet they chose to kill someone they didn't like. They had a reason, but this is NOT reasonable (to kill over a disagreement or dislike). JJK's actions are REASONABLE because that's what he was TAUGHT how to live.
I don't know why these high-class tops don't want me. I mean look at me, I dress nice and im sophisticated. I see so many beautiful tops walking around in their revealing tank tops and pretty faces. But alas, these high-class tops only chase low-class plebs like Dan.
So unsettling.
BROOO THE CD DRAMA IS DOPE!!!!! THE VOICES FIT SO WELL AND VA'S DID A SUPER GOOD JOB!!! THE STORY AND CHARACTERS ARE THE BEST TOO AAARRGGGHHHHHH
It’s true getting creampied is the cure to temporary amnesia
