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Sheesh this fight reminds me of me and my lover's fight about trust and understanding each other, hope they both talk it out. Since that's how I resolve the issue of miscommunication and misunderstanding.
TALK WITH EACH OTHER WITH AN OPEN MIND FOR UNDERSTANDING!
Kudos to Naoto, he is super right for putting boundaries when it comes to your lover's jealousy.
Hurts my heart to see them like this but it's part of being with someone. It's part of growing and development.
Trust (especially when the other one has gone through something) is a rocky part of a relationship.
How far are we gonna trust our special someone. I personally believe trusting your partner 100% is too dependent.
You should also give yourself some trust so you can make your own decisions. 100% trusting is too dangerous even if you love someone so much.
Balance. I say trust your partner half and trust yourself half and that makes a whole.
BUT! I don't hate Hazuki and would never turn on him for what he said. I'm not allowing any of the people go and say "Naoto should leave/ divorce Hazuki and be with the other guy!!" That's not how relationships should go!! Okay? Okay. Understanding not Justifying!
I understand for partners to worry for their lovers safety especially when their lover went through a major trauma. That's normal cause you love that person and any means harm to them is a big NO! and they just want to shield and protect them most times.
Yeah! Me a survivor/victims of $@ are sometimes too trusting which can lead to us being hurt again but as a grown ass adult I can handle myself. So is Naoto.
I'm also never gonna blame nor say Naoto was wrong for not "just telling him what the guy and he talk about", just to reassure Hazuki.
Naoto is an adult and he is so in the right here and he has every right to have his own circle and not involving Hazuki, that's perfectly fine. Not everything should revolve around your partner, you should have your own identity too.
Hazuki is still childish, true, but I think this is perfect example of him finally acting his actual age. He 23, fgs, in most cases he is in 2-3rd year in college. STILL IN SCHOOL! Still growing, still immature and I like him showing that.
He has a lot of room to grow with, especially for the fact he is being thrown to things so quickly, he is too amazing and too much of a green flag but he is not perfect, he is a husband, a father and He is human. Not all the time he'll be a cool guy who can handle everything or be good at everything.
(づ￣ ³￣)づ
That's all thanks for reading my rant.