I agree with the "if you like each other just date" but that is if they both have the mental capacity to date. Bro literally has some trauma going on and needed some time to fix that up. THEY JUST NEED SOME BUILD UP YKNAUR?!
They do need to clarify their feelings tho so as to not misunderstand. But for now I think they're in the getting to know or the courting stage (but they did have pre - dating(marital) sex )