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Soo I saw a post about eiser and diah, and people were shipping them, and putting all the blame on the dad alone.

Initially I’d agree since of course part of the reason he’s like this is cause of the dad. HOWEVER, eiser and the brother (ngl I forgot his name) were both raised by the dad and taught about his terrible ways. They BOTH also had good influences in their life like eiser and the lawyer(?) (I forgot, but it’s the dude that was killed), and diah for the brother. Yet you can see how different they ended up. They chose how to act and what path to go down at the end of the day. Eiser sided with his mother and saw his father for the monster he was. And the brother sided with his dad with his admiration for him, abandoning his mother. Then of course, the brother had plenty of chances to change. And he just made worse choices and dug himself a deeper hole.

So it just solidifies that people can have similar ways they’re raised but choose for themselves how they want to be.