tbh, we dislike him not coz he's had other men, lots of readers including me actually likes dominating and well-experienced bottoms, they're spicy and spunky, I assume that's why some continue reading this too; nah, it's coz the bottom's a trainwreck who couldn't make up his freaking mind and is now crawling back coz the seme's the best simp he's ever had. And don't give us crap that it's coz he's oh so traumatized and complex, piss off-- u think that gives him the right to just leave and traumatize another person in return? did the other character know what he went through? did he communicate? so why make him suffer like that? how is it unreasonable to want for us readers to at least make him be accountable for his own actions? he chose that path, he should deal with it, too bad the seme just had to be an s-tier premium member of the pushover-for-bussy club.
Well if this is the route that the creator wants, then so be it, very unsatisfying but not much we can do.
Ya think that will stop me from calling u out on your toxic beliefs? nahhhhh lol. If I could prevent even just 1 person having the same mindset as you, that's already good for me. U just can't stand arguments that go against ur own echo chamber coz u know yourself it's all bs; I never said the uke was a criminal, didn't even mention that he shouldn't get a happy ending or get back with the mc, I just said he should be more accountable for his own actions coz his trauma doesn't excuse him giving trauma to another person-- and yes, that should never be taken lightly coz where does the line end? the same logic can be applied to actual criminals who also "had trauma" growing up, it's a very dangerous way of thinking that could easily snowball from harmless to passive enablers. Also, what makes the uke's trauma weigh more than the trauma he caused the seme? it's all trauma at the end of the day, how they process it and triumph over it is what matters, the weaker u are the more u do the same to others.