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jackjack September 13, 2025 12:32 am

idk if this is obvious.

but he is taking it slow and is thinking of dan before himself here. dan isnt well and he knows this.
to tell him everything and put all his emotions onto dan knowing the mental space dan is in is going to overwhelming for dan. saying everything and sharing his emotions at this very moment would be selfish for dan.
what dan needs right now is to heal, not an explanation. granted, knowing can help someone heal but dan hasnt even started to heal. its not the right time.

also ngl he just realized, and hes aware he fucked up. he is also scared to share the feelings he realized LAST NIGHT as well as fucking up even more

    jackjack September 13, 2025 12:37 am

    ngl i appriciate this. i cant tell you how much times ive just rollleeedddd my eyes at the amount of stories ive read that 1 conversation after the realization and BOOM suddenly, no healing, abuse?? never happened

    no struggle, no backlash
    just "im sorry my beloved" then "hehe i love you"
    they bang and then cuddle with no lingering emotions even after 50 chapters of abuse.

    Mr Sleepy September 13, 2025 12:42 am
    ngl i appriciate this. i cant tell you how much times ive just rollleeedddd my eyes at the amount of stories ive read that 1 conversation after the realization and BOOM suddenly, no healing, abuse?? never happe... jackjack

    OMG YAS, SOMEONE ACTUALLY SAID IT

    virtuous31 September 13, 2025 12:48 am

    Yes, you are saying all the things!!! I want Dan to heal and I don’t think it should be with Jaekyung. Let him go and if he makes his way back to Seoul, let him do that on his own accord.

jackjack September 10, 2025 2:02 pm

and it is all a big misunderstanding innit
sigh

this story is kinda ass. even tho the art is good
ugh

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jackjack August 12, 2025 2:15 am

Im an avid BL enjoyer.
My roots stem more from the Yaoi side rather than the Shounen-ai side but there is a reason. i actually go for it for the emotional bond and story.. YES I READ YAOI FOR THE PLOT

i remember not being able to get into Shounen-ai because when i gave it a try most of the books i read never committed to the relationship. like they were scared.
its was always "but they were roommates" kinda feel.
There was a close bond but it was kinda like edging in a way. relationships always stopped developing after a while and stayed stagnant and 75% of the pairs didnt even kiss. i love a slow burn, it just had to actually be leading to something. One of my current fav BL Manhwas rn is on chapter 92 and they just started exploring the fact that they have feeling for eachother. another is at 67 and they havent even held hands yet. but the character building, psychology, relationship development MUUUAAAHHH

anywaysss
so this is where my question lies.
is it still like that? how has the scene changed? what is normal nowadays?
when i tried getting into Shounen-ai it was a long while ago. (im unc now ig) if things have changes i would be surprised if some of yall didnt know it was like that for a bit. i got fed up of being disappointed back to back.

┗( T﹏T )┛ also recommendations appreciated.

    Jiyeonie August 12, 2025 2:30 am

    Most shounen ai are still now amazing, some of them in season 2 go becomes nsfw but anyways I give you
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_hunter_s_gonna_lay_low/

    This one is BL but just it'll take ages for them lmao but I guarantee that the plot is amazing to keep you hooked. It's like ORV but bl I guess.

    Also this
    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/half_of_me/

    Currently in hiatus so u might be sad by the cliffhanger

    jackjack August 12, 2025 2:41 am
    Most shounen ai are still now amazing, some of them in season 2 go becomes nsfw but anyways I give you https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_hunter_s_gonna_lay_low/This one is BL but just it'll take ages for th... Jiyeonie

    ouu thank youuu!!. are there any lists that you can recommend?
    if not its ok. im just interested in binging ya know.

jackjack November 22, 2024 12:14 am

I need ideassssssss

literally there is nothing to do because everything costs money ;;;.
zoo? money. Picnic? money and hot ass sun. movies? money and BORING

any cute ideas?
my partners bday is literally next week and ive been stumped for a month.

the only thing ive come up with it cooking for them a traditional meal that their grandma used to make for them as a surprise. since me and their granny have the same cultural background.
but ingredients arent cheap Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

    PrettyMenSupremacy November 22, 2024 12:16 am

    If you got a big ass glass jar, start folding paper stars and fill it up then decorate it very nicely. YUH

    Sunny days November 22, 2024 12:24 am

    Write a letter/poem about how much you like them and gift it to them

    PupPupPuppy November 22, 2024 12:41 am

    origami roses are also a life saver, plus you can attach cute letters to them!

    Shookynim November 22, 2024 12:55 am

    Compile a cute small scrapbook , with letter or a a music playlist and maybe get some candy to give on the side :)

    Nijole November 22, 2024 1:19 am

    The meal idea sounds really good. A lot of traditional recipes can have pretty cheap ingredients. Maybe do just a small amount of meat & then a bunch of cheaper side dishes

    Soobin November 22, 2024 1:55 am

    i mean hey i took a look at your profile so i assume you wont be shocked by what ima say, if you guys r intimate and lovey dovey read this if your not i suggest go for a walk or bike ride but read this

    ONLY READ IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE BEING INTIMATE WITH UR PARTNER IF NOT PLEASE CLOSE THE COMMENT!!!

    - a sexual tension with music and let it climb up

    - put a blindfold on them and slowly carress their body so they start getting all fidgety

    - have a talk and compliment them alot at home then start talking about the way they make u feel and look at them with a loving face

    before u act like wtf am i doing i can assure ive done 2 of these things and my lover absolutely loved it

    Nobody November 22, 2024 2:00 am

    There has to be free things you can do around your city. Maybe try googling “free things to do around x?”

    jackjack November 22, 2024 2:50 am
    i mean hey i took a look at your profile so i assume you wont be shocked by what ima say, if you guys r intimate and lovey dovey read this if your not i suggest go for a walk or bike ride but read this ONLY REA... Soobin

    hi hi saw your comment. didnt expect u to check out my profile lol.

    i appreciate your suggestions, altho i had other kinds stuff in mind.
    i am actually not that intimate (they are tho) as im actually asexual/aromantic and have a hard time feeling anything in intimate situations as im always confused on wtf to do.
    cant go with the flow if i dont catch the flow, if that makes sense.
    But learning process so ill definitely take these ideas for future reference...
    how to even start and how not to feel awkward is another issue for these situations.
    sighhh

    jackjack November 22, 2024 2:51 am
    There has to be free things you can do around your city. Maybe try googling “free things to do around x?” Nobody

    sadly no. cuz i live in a small country and, well there isnt a lot to do

    jackjack November 22, 2024 2:58 am
    The meal idea sounds really good. A lot of traditional recipes can have pretty cheap ingredients. Maybe do just a small amount of meat & then a bunch of cheaper side dishes Nijole

    good idea.
    granted its a lot of effort so there is a part of me that wants to make quite a bit so im able to share with my family.

    Nijole November 22, 2024 3:11 am
    good idea. granted its a lot of effort so there is a part of me that wants to make quite a bit so im able to share with my family. jackjack

    If you’re sharing with family you could ask them to help a bit with buying ingredients

    jackjack November 22, 2024 7:55 pm
    If you’re sharing with family you could ask them to help a bit with buying ingredients Nijole

    mmm facts

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