
Im an avid BL enjoyer.
My roots stem more from the Yaoi side rather than the Shounen-ai side but there is a reason. i actually go for it for the emotional bond and story.. YES I READ YAOI FOR THE PLOT
i remember not being able to get into Shounen-ai because when i gave it a try most of the books i read never committed to the relationship. like they were scared.
its was always "but they were roommates" kinda feel.
There was a close bond but it was kinda like edging in a way. relationships always stopped developing after a while and stayed stagnant and 75% of the pairs didnt even kiss. i love a slow burn, it just had to actually be leading to something. One of my current fav BL Manhwas rn is on chapter 92 and they just started exploring the fact that they have feeling for eachother. another is at 67 and they havent even held hands yet. but the character building, psychology, relationship development MUUUAAAHHH
anywaysss
so this is where my question lies.
is it still like that? how has the scene changed? what is normal nowadays?
when i tried getting into Shounen-ai it was a long while ago. (im unc now ig) if things have changes i would be surprised if some of yall didnt know it was like that for a bit. i got fed up of being disappointed back to back.
┗( T﹏T )┛ also recommendations appreciated.
Most shounen ai are still now amazing, some of them in season 2 go becomes nsfw but anyways I give you
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_hunter_s_gonna_lay_low/
This one is BL but just it'll take ages for them lmao but I guarantee that the plot is amazing to keep you hooked. It's like ORV but bl I guess.
Also this
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/half_of_me/
Currently in hiatus so u might be sad by the cliffhanger
I need ideassssssss
literally there is nothing to do because everything costs money ;;;.
zoo? money. Picnic? money and hot ass sun. movies? money and BORING
any cute ideas?
my partners bday is literally next week and ive been stumped for a month.
the only thing ive come up with it cooking for them a traditional meal that their grandma used to make for them as a surprise. since me and their granny have the same cultural background.
but ingredients arent cheap Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
i mean hey i took a look at your profile so i assume you wont be shocked by what ima say, if you guys r intimate and lovey dovey read this if your not i suggest go for a walk or bike ride but read this
ONLY READ IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE BEING INTIMATE WITH UR PARTNER IF NOT PLEASE CLOSE THE COMMENT!!!
- a sexual tension with music and let it climb up
- put a blindfold on them and slowly carress their body so they start getting all fidgety
- have a talk and compliment them alot at home then start talking about the way they make u feel and look at them with a loving face
before u act like wtf am i doing i can assure ive done 2 of these things and my lover absolutely loved it
hi hi saw your comment. didnt expect u to check out my profile lol.
i appreciate your suggestions, altho i had other kinds stuff in mind.
i am actually not that intimate (they are tho) as im actually asexual/aromantic and have a hard time feeling anything in intimate situations as im always confused on wtf to do.
cant go with the flow if i dont catch the flow, if that makes sense.
But learning process so ill definitely take these ideas for future reference...
how to even start and how not to feel awkward is another issue for these situations.
sighhh
idk if this is obvious.
but he is taking it slow and is thinking of dan before himself here. dan isnt well and he knows this.
to tell him everything and put all his emotions onto dan knowing the mental space dan is in is going to overwhelming for dan. saying everything and sharing his emotions at this very moment would be selfish for dan.
what dan needs right now is to heal, not an explanation. granted, knowing can help someone heal but dan hasnt even started to heal. its not the right time.
also ngl he just realized, and hes aware he fucked up. he is also scared to share the feelings he realized LAST NIGHT as well as fucking up even more
ngl i appriciate this. i cant tell you how much times ive just rollleeedddd my eyes at the amount of stories ive read that 1 conversation after the realization and BOOM suddenly, no healing, abuse?? never happened
no struggle, no backlash
just "im sorry my beloved" then "hehe i love you"
they bang and then cuddle with no lingering emotions even after 50 chapters of abuse.
OMG YAS, SOMEONE ACTUALLY SAID IT
Yes, you are saying all the things!!! I want Dan to heal and I don’t think it should be with Jaekyung. Let him go and if he makes his way back to Seoul, let him do that on his own accord.