I need ideassssssss
literally there is nothing to do because everything costs money ;;;.
zoo? money. Picnic? money and hot ass sun. movies? money and BORING
any cute ideas?
my partners bday is literally next week and ive been stumped for a month.
the only thing ive come up with it cooking for them a traditional meal that their grandma used to make for them as a surprise. since me and their granny have the same cultural background.
but ingredients arent cheap Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
If you got a big ass glass jar, start folding paper stars and fill it up then decorate it very nicely. YUH
Write a letter/poem about how much you like them and gift it to them
origami roses are also a life saver, plus you can attach cute letters to them!
Compile a cute small scrapbook , with letter or a a music playlist and maybe get some candy to give on the side :)
The meal idea sounds really good. A lot of traditional recipes can have pretty cheap ingredients. Maybe do just a small amount of meat & then a bunch of cheaper side dishes
i mean hey i took a look at your profile so i assume you wont be shocked by what ima say, if you guys r intimate and lovey dovey read this if your not i suggest go for a walk or bike ride but read this
ONLY READ IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE BEING INTIMATE WITH UR PARTNER IF NOT PLEASE CLOSE THE COMMENT!!!
- a sexual tension with music and let it climb up
- put a blindfold on them and slowly carress their body so they start getting all fidgety
- have a talk and compliment them alot at home then start talking about the way they make u feel and look at them with a loving face
before u act like wtf am i doing i can assure ive done 2 of these things and my lover absolutely loved it
There has to be free things you can do around your city. Maybe try googling “free things to do around x?”
hi hi saw your comment. didnt expect u to check out my profile lol.
i appreciate your suggestions, altho i had other kinds stuff in mind.
i am actually not that intimate (they are tho) as im actually asexual/aromantic and have a hard time feeling anything in intimate situations as im always confused on wtf to do.
cant go with the flow if i dont catch the flow, if that makes sense.
But learning process so ill definitely take these ideas for future reference...
how to even start and how not to feel awkward is another issue for these situations.
sighhh
sadly no. cuz i live in a small country and, well there isnt a lot to do
good idea.
granted its a lot of effort so there is a part of me that wants to make quite a bit so im able to share with my family.
If you’re sharing with family you could ask them to help a bit with buying ingredients
mmm facts
i recently just found out that in Japan they dont have Split custody laws. In case of divorce, one parent takes sole "ownership" of the child.
The remaining parent is then banned by the law of seeing that child. (idk if the ramaining parent can still alow visit but its not the norm)
That is why in manga and anime, after divorce one parent disappears and is never spoken of again.
In 2024 the law was voted on to change. Allow divorced couples to share custody of their children from 2026.
this isnt a question but i wanted to share this info. it has always confused me.
i was always like "after you left, why did you not visit your child?!" and "why are yall acting like this about the child" and "why are you seperating the twins and now they never see eachother again??"
Now We know.
I don’t think this happens in Korea tho so why is this plot also common in manhwas?
Omg that makes so much sense now. Thank you so much for the info! Very wierd law and it probably effected a lot of kids in japan negatively. I cant imagine what its like for a kid to just never see a parent again. Im guessing they must have felt very abandoned. Its probably also another reason behind the low birth rates even among couples(￣∇￣")
Help i edited because i made spelling errors and the edit auto deleted all the previous comments befoe i was able ot read them.
i hate that mango does this.
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i have no idea. I didnt look into Custody laws in korea.
If there isnt a law like this in korea yet they still write like this its possible that it might just be because
1) to play up the drama
2) Influence from outside sources ( eg: its just become a comon trope and its just used in general without thinking of location)
3) an excuse to erase a character from the story.
i'm not sure 100% but from a quick google it does seem like parent do have visitation rights. How comon it is, is up to korean culture and the norm. Im not from there so idk
this is so interesting
hold up...
why am i talking to andrew tate on Mgo T0T
lolll
agree sm.
Sadly its an old law that was just never changed until now
the law is from about 1896 if im getting the information correct.
this is what I just found:
"Under the current framework, which dates back to 1898, only one divorced parent can obtain custody over the children."
Wtf
i have no idea but ngl
im manhwa specifically i see a similar but different situation more often. i actually see just plain child abandonment.
im guessing a lot of ppl resent becoming parents in korea since raising a child there is very hard.
so maybe thats why?
might actually be straight abandonment in their case. both parents fight because they dont wanna be "dumped" with the kid
Im an avid BL enjoyer.
My roots stem more from the Yaoi side rather than the Shounen-ai side but there is a reason. i actually go for it for the emotional bond and story.. YES I READ YAOI FOR THE PLOT
i remember not being able to get into Shounen-ai because when i gave it a try most of the books i read never committed to the relationship. like they were scared.
its was always "but they were roommates" kinda feel.
There was a close bond but it was kinda like edging in a way. relationships always stopped developing after a while and stayed stagnant and 75% of the pairs didnt even kiss. i love a slow burn, it just had to actually be leading to something. One of my current fav BL Manhwas rn is on chapter 92 and they just started exploring the fact that they have feeling for eachother. another is at 67 and they havent even held hands yet. but the character building, psychology, relationship development MUUUAAAHHH
anywaysss
so this is where my question lies.
is it still like that? how has the scene changed? what is normal nowadays?
when i tried getting into Shounen-ai it was a long while ago. (im unc now ig) if things have changes i would be surprised if some of yall didnt know it was like that for a bit. i got fed up of being disappointed back to back.
┗( T﹏T )┛ also recommendations appreciated.
Most shounen ai are still now amazing, some of them in season 2 go becomes nsfw but anyways I give you
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_hunter_s_gonna_lay_low/
This one is BL but just it'll take ages for them lmao but I guarantee that the plot is amazing to keep you hooked. It's like ORV but bl I guess.
Also this
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/half_of_me/
Currently in hiatus so u might be sad by the cliffhanger
ouu thank youuu!!. are there any lists that you can recommend?
if not its ok. im just interested in binging ya know.